What Are You Doing Right Now? (175 Viewers)

[swag]

No. It's truly mature to master when to do it and when not to do it.
It has nothing to do with trusting yourself. What I wrote was from a very specific situation. There's usually also other people involved and you have to think about them too. How can you do that if you whatever feels good?

Doing whatever feels good is different from whether you fall in love with someone or not. In fact, a lot of people might tell you that, and not entirely cynically, that love is your ability to feel pain ... since everything ultimately comes to an end anyway. So I could argue that falling in love with someone can represent the opposite of "doing whatever feels good".

The former is hedonism. That's different than, say, developing a productive relationship with someone you might develop more romantic feelings for -- and yet being able to draw boundaries so that those romantic feelings don't cross over into other behaviors that might damage others.

 

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[Enron]

Maturity isn't avoiding your feelings, it's learning to live with them.

 

[ZoSo]

I had to look it up, but good luck to you

you're in finance too?

::hustini2:: @ZoSo

 

[Lapa]

Ohh boy...one friend is still missing. I guess we got little drunk yesterday.

 

[Osman]

Ohh boy...one friend is still missing. I guess we got little drunk yesterday.

You celebrate valborg too?


I woke today with my gfs best friend sleeping outside my door lol.


We lost track of her and others in crowd of thousands, and kinda worried since she was near blackout drunk even during the day (things started off around noon lol), even though she behaves better drunk then sober lol, but somehow managed to walk 8kms in that state.

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[Lapa]

You celebrate valborg too?


I woke today with my gfs best friend sleeping outside my door lol.


We lost track of her and others in crowd of thousands, and kinda worried since she was near blackout drunk even during the day (things started off around noon lol), even though she behaves better drunk then sober lol, but somehow managed to walk 8kms in that state.

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1st of May is a huge party here. People just get totally wasted and that's about it.

 

[Osman]

I forget finland is similar rest of us scandinavia sometimes Valborg/1st may is especially huge in my town Uppsala, historic student town and litterally whole town goes crazy this day, activities from morning til next morning. Ambulances everywhere lol.

 

[Sheik Yerbouti]

 

[swag]

Maturity isn't avoiding your feelings, it's learning to live with them.

Huge, bro. Huge.

Or Yuge as they say in Mar-a-Lago

 

[AFL_ITALIA]

you're in finance too?

I am. I do billing for one of the "big 3" credit rating agencies. So many financial controls and rules though, so stressful for no reason. I'm going to try to leave soon but now I want my $500 referral bonus

 

[X Æ A-12]

So I had a great but odd weekend in SF. I came back with only slighty less money, a lot less Acid a phone # and a lot more cocaine

 

[Sheik Yerbouti]

So I had a great but odd weekend in SF. I came back with only slighty less money, a lot less Acid a phone # and a lot more cocaine

Swings and roundabouts.

 

[Quetzalcoatl]

So I had a great but odd weekend in SF. I came back with only slighty less money, a lot less Acid a phone # and a lot more cocaine

You're a cokehead now?

 

[IliveForJuve]

From stoner to cokehead.

 

[X Æ A-12]

You're a cokehead now?

nah i just needed coke to prevent crash after being up for 30 hours straight on LSD. It worked for about an hour

 

[Osman]

I am. I do billing for one of the "big 3" credit rating agencies. So many financial controls and rules though, so stressful for no reason. I'm going to try to leave soon but now I want my $500 referral bonus

You get 500 dollars for referring someone? Damn my cheapskate company lol, we get 200 euros for successfully referring /recommending a new hire.

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[Quetzalcoatl]

nah i just needed coke to prevent crash after being up for 30 hours straight on LSD. It worked for about an hour

Lol nice, got any ass too?

 

[Hængebøffer]

Doing whatever feels good is different from whether you fall in love with someone or not. In fact, a lot of people might tell you that, and not entirely cynically, that love is your ability to feel pain ... since everything ultimately comes to an end anyway. So I could argue that falling in love with someone can represent the opposite of "doing whatever feels good".

The former is hedonism. That's different than, say, developing a productive relationship with someone you might develop more romantic feelings for -- and yet being able to draw boundaries so that those romantic feelings don't cross over into other behaviors that might damage others.

Dude. You're really meta in this discussion and I talk out of a pragmatic pov. I do not disagree with you, but I still believe we have much more control over our feelings. It just becomes too spiritual and determinstic for my liking.

 

[ALC]

Dude. You're really meta in this discussion and I talk out of a pragmatic pov. I do not disagree with you, but I still believe we have much more control over our feelings. It just becomes too spiritual and determinstic for my liking.

Yeah, people here are being way too weird about feelings.

 

[Fr3sh]

Yeah, people here are being way too weird about feelings.

I thought of you when i saw this video.

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omg she's been doing it for four years