See, this is the kinda shit that I hate! You got one set of voices saying "you gotta make them feel like a princess when you're with them" and the other saying not to put them on a pedestal. FFS what do they want then?
Seriously, why the fuck is this dating/relationship thing so fuckin' complicated and confusing? How the fuck am I supposed to follow any rule when there
always is another rule that's fuckin' contrary to that shit?
I give up.
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Also Os, thanks for ruining what lil excitement I managed to gain for the day.
Sheik, my friend.
There is a huge difference between treating a woman they way she wants to be treated, and "Putting the Pussy on a Pedestal"
The former includes making her feel like she is the only one in the room, as if you're attention is focused on her, solely her. No smart phone, no glancing at the TV, none of that. The former includes remembering the little things that she may like, or dislike. Something as important to her as her favorite song, or something that might be as trivial as her favorite color. In my experience, it has always been to give them something but leave them wanting more. I had some pretty good success with that mantra over the decades.
The latter is very simple. It is based upon a combination of overlooking whatever faults she may have, giving in to every whim, combined with your own insecurities that you feel like if she were to go, you won't find another, or at least another that would be as good as what just walked out the door. They call that being whipped, son. And that is unhealthy for you.
That, in my opinion is where that line of thinking comes from.
It's a fine line, man, and you only start to see the line a little clearer through experience. That might now be what you want to hear, but more often than not it is the only way to learn.
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My Canuck homies can be jelly tomorrow
Picked up a couple tix
Kids in the hall?
That troupe is still around?
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