What Are You Doing Right Now? (211 Viewers)
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I think it's generally very hard to control your feelings and reactions toward what people say to you, it's a gut instinct. Some people can just let insults and such drop right off them, while others are going to let it affect them.
It's complicated though. For example, if someone insults me on here, usually it doesn't bother me. If it was someone in person, it would bother me a lot more. I'm assuming you're talking about insults or gossip about a person or something like that though, or are you talking about other stuff that someone's being offended by?
It's complicated though. For example, if someone insults me on here, usually it doesn't bother me. If it was someone in person, it would bother me a lot more. I'm assuming you're talking about insults or gossip about a person or something like that though, or are you talking about other stuff that someone's being offended by?
But yeah, I'm a female interista, and my husband is milanista. Most people here know that so I didn't really put any context
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Yeah it still is individual no matter what, I was just curious what it is that this person is being hurt/offended by. For example some people are sensitive to hearing things that are politically incorrect, even if it wasn't directed toward them. Or it could be rejection, or something.
Cutting off ties is hard, but sometimes it's something that needs to be done.
Personally, actions hurt me more than words. If I rate someone, if I respect you and decide to walk with you, I expect a certain level of respect. If that expectation is not met, then said individual is not worthy of walking with me, period.
When I moved to Edmonton, I got really close with this Moroccan guy, we were really close friends. From '09 till about 2013, I used to kick it with him on the regular. If I don't see him for a while, call him up, see if all is good, dude was like a brother to me. As the years went on, we racked up a shit ton of mutual friends, hung out in the several different social circles. Other people started coming around and started telling me Buddy is spreading such and such words about you, I paid no mind. There was this one class we took together, I had super shitty grade in a midterm while he killed it, he bragged about it to the whole world by comparing his 90+% grade to my 55% grade, I paid no mind. He talks serious shit over the pool table (in the student lounge), I laugh with him.
Then one day, I go to him, ask him advice about some girl I was pulling moves on. Next thing you know fucker went to Mexico with her over reading week. Came back orange as fuck and tried to gimme one of them handshake/hugs when he came back, I clocked the fucker. Never looked at him in the eye ever again.
Personally, actions hurt me more than words. If I rate someone, if I respect you and decide to walk with you, I expect a certain level of respect. If that expectation is not met, then said individual is not worthy of walking with me, period.
When I moved to Edmonton, I got really close with this Moroccan guy, we were really close friends. From '09 till about 2013, I used to kick it with him on the regular. If I don't see him for a while, call him up, see if all is good, dude was like a brother to me. As the years went on, we racked up a shit ton of mutual friends, hung out in the several different social circles. Other people started coming around and started telling me Buddy is spreading such and such words about you, I paid no mind. There was this one class we took together, I had super shitty grade in a midterm while he killed it, he bragged about it to the whole world by comparing his 90+% grade to my 55% grade, I paid no mind. He talks serious shit over the pool table (in the student lounge), I laugh with him.
Then one day, I go to him, ask him advice about some girl I was pulling moves on. Next thing you know fucker went to Mexico with her over reading week. Came back orange as fuck and tried to gimme one of them handshake/hugs when he came back, I clocked the fucker. Never looked at him in the eye ever again.