What Are You Doing Right Now? (231 Viewers)

Salvo

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I dont think I could accept her back but I'd at least like her to try. I think its a power thing, status.
I'd at least like another I'm sorry, something. I just feel like she is making it seem like noting happened.

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Klin said:
You actually want to get back together, Sal?
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Nah. I just want to know she is regretting it.
 
Salvo

Salvo

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Raz said:
Shit man, get a grip.
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Jeez I'm not being that ridiculous, am I?

Klin said:
I know it's hard, but you shouldn't be thinking about that. Just hang on and give it time.
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Yeah I know man.

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Dule90 said:
Fix that ego :stuckup:
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Maybe I put it wrong. I think what I want is just a proper explanation, a written im sorry. Something.

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Maybe its just me but like I find it odd that she wouldn't message me after she told me, like by now. Saying something. I dont even know what.
 
Raz

Raz

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Salvo said:
Jeez I'm not being that ridiculous, am I?
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Yeah you are. Why would you want to get a message from her saying again she is sorry if you don't want to continue with her? You said it yourself you can;t forgive her that, so why would you want to torture yourself more?

Though I feel you bro, last year I had two relationships that messed me up and I needed whole year after the last one to get over. So I know the feeling, but this stuff you are keeping on your mind won't help you at all. She cheated, she's not worth it, move on (as hard as it sounds now).
 
Osman

Osman

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She probably doesn't care, and guess what, you shouldn't either, I know it's hard, but accept when reality bitch slaps and know when to disengage emotionally. I get if you get messed up by long term relationship ending up like this, but you need to be careful in new relationships and not get too sucked in before really getting know them above the casual stage.
 
Raz

Raz

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Osman said:
She probably doesn't care, and guess what, you shouldn't either, I know it's hard, but accept when reality bitch slaps and know when to disengage emotionally. I get if you get messed up by long term relationship ending up like this, but you need to be careful in new relationships and not get too sucked in before really getting know them above the casual stage.
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This.
 
Osman

Osman

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She cares or she doesn't, at this point it shouldn't matter to you anymore. Even if it would make you feel better if she did, it wouldn't change anything, would it?
 
Raz

Raz

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Salvo said:
Yeah I know what you mean, but surely anyone with a fucking heart cares. Id find it pretty ridiculous if she doesn't care.
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Stop judging everyone by your standards. You have don't know what's in her head and her past experiences. And really man, get a grip you really sound weepy. It's not like you were with here for a long time, it's just one of those times it didn't work out, be happy she cheated on you now and not when it really was serious.

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Osman said:
She cares or she doesn't, at this point it shouldn't matter to you anymore. Even if it would make you feel better if she did, it wouldn't change anything, would it?
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It just doesn't matter at all.
 
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