What Are You Doing Right Now? (294 Viewers)

[Dostoevsky]

she also hasnt contacted me since she told me

Why should she?

To apologize and ask to work things out?

What she did goes on her, she doesn't own you a phone call at all at this point since she told you already. Also, you shouldn't accept her back even if she wants to.

 

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[Klin]

You actually want to get back together, Sal?

 

[Salvo]

I dont think I could accept her back but I'd at least like her to try. I think its a power thing, status.
I'd at least like another I'm sorry, something. I just feel like she is making it seem like noting happened.

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You actually want to get back together, Sal?

Nah. I just want to know she is regretting it.

 

[Raz]

Shit man, get a grip.

 

[Klin]

Nah. I just want to know she is regretting it.

I know it's hard, but you shouldn't be thinking about that. Just hang on and give it time.

 

[Dostoevsky]

I dont think I could accept her back but I'd at least like her to try. I think its a power thing, status.
I'd at least like another I'm sorry, something. I just feel like she is making it seem like noting happened.

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Nah. I just want to know she is regretting it.

Fix that ego

 

[Salvo]

Shit man, get a grip.

Jeez I'm not being that ridiculous, am I?

I know it's hard, but you shouldn't be thinking about that. Just hang on and give it time.

Yeah I know man.

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Fix that ego

Maybe I put it wrong. I think what I want is just a proper explanation, a written im sorry. Something.

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Maybe its just me but like I find it odd that she wouldn't message me after she told me, like by now. Saying something. I dont even know what.

 

[ZoSo]

stop beating yourself up man

 

[Raz]

Jeez I'm not being that ridiculous, am I?

Yeah you are. Why would you want to get a message from her saying again she is sorry if you don't want to continue with her? You said it yourself you can;t forgive her that, so why would you want to torture yourself more?

Though I feel you bro, last year I had two relationships that messed me up and I needed whole year after the last one to get over. So I know the feeling, but this stuff you are keeping on your mind won't help you at all. She cheated, she's not worth it, move on (as hard as it sounds now).

 

[Salvo]

I think I just wan't to know she regrets it. It was going well, fun.

Women mang, they make no sense.

 

[Raz]

I think I just wan't to know she regrets it. It was going well, fun.

Why? What's the end game knowing she regrets it? If she cheated once she will most likely do it again so what's the point?

 

[Salvo]

Right now I feel like she doesnt care and that hurts me more. That is the problem.

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stop beating yourself up man

 

[Osman]

She probably doesn't care, and guess what, you shouldn't either, I know it's hard, but accept when reality bitch slaps and know when to disengage emotionally. I get if you get messed up by long term relationship ending up like this, but you need to be careful in new relationships and not get too sucked in before really getting know them above the casual stage.

 

[Raz]

She probably doesn't care, and guess what, you shouldn't either, I know it's hard, but accept when reality bitch slaps and know when to disengage emotionally. I get if you get messed up by long term relationship ending up like this, but you need to be careful in new relationships and not get too sucked in before really getting know them above the casual stage.

This.

 

[Salvo]

Yeah I know what you mean, but surely anyone with a fucking heart cares. Id find it pretty ridiculous if she doesn't care.

 

[Osman]

She cares or she doesn't, at this point it shouldn't matter to you anymore. Even if it would make you feel better if she did, it wouldn't change anything, would it?

 

[Raz]

Yeah I know what you mean, but surely anyone with a fucking heart cares. Id find it pretty ridiculous if she doesn't care.

Stop judging everyone by your standards. You have don't know what's in her head and her past experiences. And really man, get a grip you really sound weepy. It's not like you were with here for a long time, it's just one of those times it didn't work out, be happy she cheated on you now and not when it really was serious.

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She cares or she doesn't, at this point it shouldn't matter to you anymore. Even if it would make you feel better if she did, it wouldn't change anything, would it?

It just doesn't matter at all.

 

[Salvo]

I just don't get it is all.

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She cares or she doesn't, at this point it shouldn't matter to you anymore. Even if it would make you feel better if she did, it wouldn't change anything, would it?

Strangely I think I'd feel better if she did.

 

[Osman]

You don't get that people can be selfish, impulsive or inconsiderate? Get a frigging grip bro.

 

[Raz]

I just don't get it is all.

What's there to get? Met a girl that wasn't what you thought, that is all.