Job > unemployed. Always was and always will be.
She wants to get engaged in Paris. She watches a lot of movies and I already scratched out that option with her, bringing out that money excuse. She did the exact same thing when I told her we should go watch a Juve game this season.
Probably gonna take her to Paris someday as my 'surprise' to fulfill her dream, but certainly after we've found our house and fill it in with the basics. We're not going to buy a house with what we've saved, Dus. It's just for the 10% of the property value and the architects and notary fees. We won't find anything less than €150K with what we both want, and that's the very minimum, trust me. We're the last of our group to get married. Everyone is already married or will get married this year and they're all between 25-30, so I feel I'm in right track as I am the youngest of the bunch.
She wants to get engaged in Paris. She watches a lot of movies and I already scratched out that option with her, bringing out that money excuse. She did the exact same thing when I told her we should go watch a Juve game this season.
Ah, I see. Still, those are some heavy numbers and here only a pipe dream. It's literally impossible, even if you (in this case I) cash out that 10%, here it would be like paying 200-250 euros per month until I die, my children might even have to pay the rest of the sum. 250 euros might not be much, but if your wage is like 350 euros (like here) then it's pretty idiotic. Not to mention prices of the food, which are the same as in Italy/Germany who have 10x bigger wages. So, even if you do pay those 10% and move in, mozel tov.
