Ragazza

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Jul 22, 2013
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So last night I found out that a guy I know (sort of a friend I guess, but not someone I see or talk to a lot) has been telling other people we know that he's offended/hurt by me. So now one girl is convinced I'm a huge bitch, bully, etc & is trying to convince other people of this too. When really if he had just told me I had offended him, I would have stopped right there.

Thing is, I can't even think of what he would be offended about though, but I would never intentionally try to hurt someone's feelings. I mean I have a pretty sarcastic sense of humor, and I make fun of everything & everyone, but I never mean anything bad by it, most people can tell that. I'm guessing I went too far for his liking, which I would apologize to him for, but I'm pissed he went behind my back about it instead of having the balls to tell me to my face.

I'm not exactly sure what to think here. But now I can't help but feel I'm a bitch.
 

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Lapa

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Sep 29, 2008
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I mean I have a pretty sarcastic sense of humor, and I make fun of everything & everyone, but I never mean anything bad by it, most people can tell that.
If that's the case, then you surely know that not all can see past your sarcasm. And you just need to live with it. That's why you need to test every person when you first see him/her, so that you know if he/she is insecure piece of shit and not worth your company and great humor. :D
 
Apr 15, 2006
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So last night I found out that a guy I know (sort of a friend I guess, but not someone I see or talk to a lot) has been telling other people we know that he's offended/hurt by me. So now one girl is convinced I'm a huge bitch, bully, etc & is trying to convince other people of this too. When really if he had just told me I had offended him, I would have stopped right there.

Thing is, I can't even think of what he would be offended about though, but I would never intentionally try to hurt someone's feelings. I mean I have a pretty sarcastic sense of humor, and I make fun of everything & everyone, but I never mean anything bad by it, most people can tell that. I'm guessing I went too far for his liking, which I would apologize to him for, but I'm pissed he went behind my back about it instead of having the balls to tell me to my face.

I'm not exactly sure what to think here. But now I can't help but feel I'm a bitch.
You can't really control everyone's perception of you. I guess the most you can do is try and clear the air with him. But you shouldn't blame yourself for that.
 

swag

L'autista
Administrator
Sep 23, 2003
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So last night I found out that a guy I know (sort of a friend I guess, but not someone I see or talk to a lot) has been telling other people we know that he's offended/hurt by me. So now one girl is convinced I'm a huge bitch, bully, etc & is trying to convince other people of this too. When really if he had just told me I had offended him, I would have stopped right there.

Thing is, I can't even think of what he would be offended about though, but I would never intentionally try to hurt someone's feelings. I mean I have a pretty sarcastic sense of humor, and I make fun of everything & everyone, but I never mean anything bad by it, most people can tell that. I'm guessing I went too far for his liking, which I would apologize to him for, but I'm pissed he went behind my back about it instead of having the balls to tell me to my face.

I'm not exactly sure what to think here. But now I can't help but feel I'm a bitch.
:(

Just sayin... that dude has a way bigger vagina than you.
 

Wings

Banter era connoiseur
Contributor
Jul 15, 2002
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These things are usually bigger than they seem by the time they get to 3rd parties. Call the guy up & apologise if he feels offended. Clear things up. You'll be surprised how out of proportion things have been blown out & you can all laugh at it unless he is douche. If that does not work you can always blame il gol di Muntari :D
 

Ragazza

Calciopoli Director
Jul 22, 2013
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Yeah, I arrived in Vegas yesterday all ready to have a good time, and then this shit. At least the people I'm with "forced" me to go out for some drinks to forget about it. And I got to laugh at Milan. :D

Now time for a lesson in masochism, also known as watching Inter play.


If that does not work you can always blame il gol di Muntari :D
:lol2:

The guy I'm talking about is one of two other interisti I know that live in my area.
 

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