Meh Its hard to plan to go to a party in another city, trying to manipulate one (any) of us to be totally sober for the whole night so they can be the designated driver, so far no one is budging
Extortionate figures Usually take train back and forth to Stockholm, but in this case last one goes way too early in the evening for it to be an option.
But hopefully solved soon, convincing someone who is not going to come pick us up very late/early in the morning, paying him bit like black service taxi (cheap enough).