That's horrible, Claudio. I'm really sorry to hear that.
I'm surrounded by bad health news of friends and family these days, so I can relate.
Billy has some pretty wise words. His maturity can be deceiving, I swear.
I'd say do what you want. Whether that's closer or not. Go with how you feel -- there's no right or wrong answer.
Some people are uncomfortable with the idea of impending death and will try to avoid loss. But here's a life secret: it happens to all of us. So either you can bury your head in the sand and keep pretending we'll all live forever, or you make that step and acknowledge it as a fact of life. Because, in fact,
death defines life.
You may find, for example, that her perspective and approach to life given the news could be some of the best personal wisdom for how you can appreciate and enjoy your own life for years to come. News of impending death does that to people -- it can shake them out of their comfort zone of denial, and they can often be the most life-affirming people you'll ever meet.
Because you're never going to escape that eventuality -- for yourself, your friends, your family. It's heavy to deal with at any time. But if you're ready for it, I'm sure it can ultimately be a very positive experience overall if you let it.