Apr 15, 2006
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A. They don't know what they want.
B. They might be too meek to turn someone down except ever so politely.
C. They don't know what they want.
True. I guess I can't expect her to be as straight-forward as I am.

Sounds like you gave it a reasonable shot then. Like I said, you could play all the games like IZ mentions. But I don't think that suits your style. You're much better off with someone who appreciates your up-front honesty and sincerity.
Indeed!

Well, yes. Like nobody on dating sites ever exaggerates, right?

Not saying it's the wrong answer. Some people have a past history that motivates them to have these hoops to jump through just to get to know them and you.

But my red flag to the Sheik is this: the kind of person who thinks they should be different from their truer self, or wants you to be different from your truer self for the game, is someone you probably don't want to be with to start with.

Point being: someone playing hard to get suggests that they have an inclination to make things a little challenging to get together. And not that you need to get married and that you can't just date someone to have fun together for a while. But believe me -- seeing as many failed marriages of friends in recent years as I have -- if both parties don't find a way to make it easy to be together, the relationship is doomed. Maybe now, maybe a little later.

It takes two people actively working to make it work together in mutual honesty. And someone who shows signs of holding back for a while -- even if just as part of an early tease -- is a major warning flag of someone whose personality is primed for mutually assured destruction if the relationship should ever get serious.

Or in short: by playing hard to get, she self-selected herself out of the running for the Sheikstress. :agree:
Agree with everything. She blew her chance with me..

Sheikstress... I like that. :D

But something tells me Sheik isn't so much young and on the prowl for the evening's notch on the bedpost either. ;)
Mid-20's. You tell me. :)

True, but that bint sounds like she has the relationship maturity of a 14 year old :D
True. She didn't seem like that on first glance. Pity.
 

Kate

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Feb 7, 2011
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I don't know. I think Kate looks nice with short hair.
Thanks, sweetheart.

Kyle said:
Do it. Long hair is better on chicks.
Not usually on me, it makes me look like a sad, dateless librarian.

swag said:
Only if you shave the word "Kun" on the sides like a true juventina.
I think my boyfriend would dump me, that's just going too far.
 

swag

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Alright, I'm off to downtown San Francisco to have some greasy guy in coveralls stick his rod in my tailpipe.

(No, it's a smog check thing for my car.)
 

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