True dat.
Sheik: most (nearly all?) men don't watch porn for "intimacy." They watch it more as a form of entertainment.
A lot of women see it as competitive to themselves ... as in the infamous
interview scene in Blade Runner. But then there are others, and I forget who said this, of the mind, "I don't mind where he gets his appetite as long as he comes home for dinner."
And the truth is a number of women, as Kate points out, think similarly but don't let on because -- well -- society says it's "unladylike".