Man, whatever you all do, if you have a question about your partner, please don't get married.
I'm struggling with a good friend whose marriage has come apart suddenly after years together. But now the guy is on my doorstep every other day. I am doing my best to see and support the guy, but he's taking up 4-5x of my free time as he usually would. It's now getting hard for me to see other friends, do things around the house, watch a football match now and then...
Look, I'm your friend and all, but I'm not your wife!