thank you aaron.
there is a saying here...something like all the good people die earlier and all the bad people live a hundred years. I never see this person doing harm or even thinking bad at someone, she always welcomed me like no relative did...not even my granny loved me like this aunt, and she was 54..my (girl) cousin was absolutely destroied...cried continuosly for 4 hours.. The priest that officiated the ceremony made a 10 minutes poem...he made all the attendance, including me cry..and i almost never cry at funerals. May she rest in peace..