It's very depressing. there are no words, or actions, that can take away my wife's pain.
In the 17 years that I've known her, I can't remember ever feeling so helpless. I don't know if what I'm doing is the right thing or not, whether I should give her space, hold her, try to get her to talk to me, let her come and talk to me at her own pace.
I've lost my mother in law well before her time, and I'm afraid of losing my wife in the process.
That girl is my everything