What Are You Doing Right Now? (181 Viewers)

[Dragon]

Night!



Again, I didn't plan to have the kid, didn't ask the woman to have it, so it's not my responsibility.. this argument can go forever btw, you need to listen and look from people's view to understand them, or these conversations becomes just like religions one "I am wrong you are right"..

I am trying to look at it from your point of view, and I just don't understand how you would fail to be responsible for something you did, even if you "didn't know" your partner wasn't on birth control, once again, you should have made sure she didn't get pregnant. I also don't understand how you would live knowing you got a girl pregnant and YOUR kid is alone without a biological dad somewhere in the World

 

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[Elvin]

One thing I got from the last few pages is that we are indeed the most lost generation EVER!

 

[Snoop]

Then I would have to be responsible for our new child, and shame on me for not being on another form of birth control... And you know something I'm not being feminist but it's always the girl who has it the worst in this situation; she's the one who gets pregnant, has to get fat and has to give birth to the kid!! Even if she was gonna give it on adoption she still has to carry it for 9 months! It's easy for you to say you won't assume your responsibilities because after you have sex with a girl and knock her up you don't have to do anything else!

Like I said, you are looking at it from feminism way, and you just proved it now. You know I am not the one to take birth control pills no? I am not the one to check if I am pregnant or not no? and there is nothing wrong with adoption. Or you know what? she could shut the fuck and not have sex if she doesn't want to do these. It's not like I am talking about raping situations.

When you donate sperm in a sperm bank you sign papers releasing you from any responsibility

So it's about papers? Then from now on, I will sign on a paper with "I will have a sex with this girl on this xx date, if she gets pregnant, I sign here refusing to take any responsibility with the possible accidents"

 

[Dragon]

Like I said, you are looking at it from feminism way, and you just proved it now. You know I am not the one to take birth control pills no? I am not the one to check if I am pregnant or not no? and there is nothing wrong with adoption. Or you know what? she could shut the fuck and not have sex if she doesn't want to do these. It's not like I am talking about raping situations.

You could wear a condom. You are as responsible as a girl when she gets pregnant. She could not have gotten pregnant by herself. I don't understand how I'm looking at it in a "feminist" way TBH.

So it's about papers? Then from now on, I will sign on a paper with "I will have a sex with this girl on this xx date, if she gets pregnant, I sign here refusing to take any responsibility with the possible accidents" [/QUOTE]

:luckyluke:

 

[Snoop]

Good night blondu.



I have no problem with you man. it's just we don't agree on this subject and I totally understand.

Sperm donating is a different thing. Which I don't agree with the whole concept because I think it's f=ed up, but in that case the sperm was donated which means that women made a choice to take it and you made a choice to give it. when you sleep around a little accident happen then there was no choice made, the only choice was made is to have sex and enjoy yourself.

You guys came at me with "but you are the father, you should take responsibility", you donate the sperm, and then it won't come your child? see where the logic fails? This is no different in the end. it's not like I decided to be a father, then I gave up. That's fucked up, and not the case I am talking about.

I am trying to look at it from your point of view, and I just don't understand how you would fail to be responsible for something you did, even if you "didn't know" your partner wasn't on birth control, once again, you should have made sure she didn't get pregnant. I also don't understand how you would live knowing you got a girl pregnant and YOUR kid is alone without a biological dad somewhere in the World

Let's say I was drunk when I had sex. Will that differ? don't tell me then it's wrong to drink or I shouldn't?

 

[Dragon]

Let's say I was drunk when I had sex. Will that differ? don't tell me then it's wrong to drink or I shouldn't?

You should have used a condom. Or were you too drunk to put one on?

 

[Snoop]

You should have used a condom. Or were you too drunk to put one on?

Fabi I always thought you are much smarter than that. Are you aware you asked this question many times and I answered it many times?

Last time:

- What if I was too drunk to forget wearing the condom?
- What if the condom was ripped, and the sperm went out?

 

[Snoop]

Seriously read them all from the start, my point was very clear and accurate. I am done with this subject.

 

[Delle Alpi]

You guys came at me with "but you are the father, you should take responsibility", you donate the sperm, and then it won't come your child? see where the logic fails? This is no different in the end. it's not like I decided to be a father, then I gave up. That's fucked up, and not the case I am talking about.

It looks like we will never agree and I respect that and have no problem, but seriously man it's obvious that you are the father

 

[Snoop]

Actually that fits exactly to those who think like you, who get owned by the women with that plan

 

[Bjerknes]

Hey, at least Snoop didn't abort the baby. The kid is alive and kicking somewhere but just without a father. Better than being dead.

 

[Bjerknes]

Actually that fits exactly to those who think like you, who get owned by the women with that plan

 

[Dragon]

Fabi I always thought you are much smarter than that. Are you aware you asked this question many times and I answered it many times?

Last time:

- What if I was too drunk to forget wearing the condom?
- What if the condom was ripped, and the sperm went out?

Then you are an irresponsible human being and don't fully understand what the consequences of having sex mean !

Next time you have sex with some girl, ask her if she's on the pill

If the condom was ripped make her take the next day pill. I honestly don't know of any girl who would want some one night stand to result in a baby, but I've heard there are some morons out there though haha

 

[Snoop]

Hey, at least Snoop didn't abort the baby. The kid is alive and kicking somewhere but just without a father. Better than being dead.

We were talking about possibilities (some girl that I dated joked with me that she is pregnant, she did it right after she left the country), I don't have kids around kicking (at least I hope so)

 

[Dragon]

Actually that fits exactly to those who think like you, who get owned by the women with that plan

Where exactly are this women with that plan? I would NEVER trick some random guy into getting me pregnant to have a child! Makes no sense

 

[Delle Alpi]

It's very easy to do DNA tests.

P.S Imagine If I take my Asian girl friend/wife and black baby back to Middle East to introduce to the family and specially my parents .
Ok Dad and Mom this is your grandson

 

[Snoop]

Then you are an irresponsible human being and don't fully understand what the consequences of having sex mean !

Maybe. But I don't plan to make kids for that, because I don't see myself ready to take kids' responsibility.

Next time you have sex with some girl, ask her if she's on the pill

If the condom was ripped make her take the next day pill.

I always do.

I honestly don't know of any girl who would want some one night stand to result in a baby, but I've heard there are some morons out there though haha

And we are talking about them, these are ifs and buts, not everyday situation.

Very simple, try to get it, I will explain you the simplest way:

Do I plan to have kids? No, Do I make sure the girl I have sex know that? Yes. Should I give her the birth control pills? No, she should do that herself. which men does that?lol. If she lied at me, and got pregnant intentionally, should I take responsibility on her kid who she decided to have without asking my decision/permition? No. Because people donate sperms, I would consider it more like a donation. I wouldn't marry her or raise that kid for her stupidity.

If you still can't understand that, then I can't help you anymore, sorry

 

[Snoop]

Where exactly are this women with that plan? I would NEVER trick some random guy into getting me pregnant to have a child! Makes no sense

You wouldn't, and maybe no one does. We are talking about the possible ones, are you this slow Fabi? Jeez

 

[Dragon]

\If she lied at me, and got pregnant intentionally, should I take responsibility on her kid who she decided to have without asking my decision/permition? No. Because people donate sperms, I would consider it more like a donation. I wouldn't marry her or raise that kid for her stupidity.

There is some time in life when we're not 13 anymore and we need to start being responsible for the stuff we do...

 

[Snoop]

There is some time in life when we're not 13 anymore and we need to start being responsible for the stuff we do...

Are you serious? Cause I thought that way for you after all these explanations