What Are You Doing Right Now? (156 Viewers)

[Delle Alpi]

Tell all my man. We'll set up a plan and get you back out there.

First of all thanks for all the advise, it really helped.
So I picked her up, she lives right next to the university campus just like me.
She asked me to come in to meet her roommate, So I did my best to not mess it up with the roommates. So later on we left to the Movie theatre north of campus by the mall, and I asked her what would you like watch. So I told her about what might be good and she thought the movie julie & julia could be a good one. I got the tickets. The Movie ended up to be really entertaining, I thought meryl streep was amazing. We had almost an hour before the staret of the movie so I took her to a nice mexican restaurant. I only had two Martinis, I didn't want go crazy on the drinks. After the movie we went for a little walk and grabbed some of my fav icecream (Marble slab) and had chance to talk, and was my favorite part of the whole date, because I knew alot about her. We talked about many things, you name it. And then dropped her home and left. I didn't go in and I didn't even tried to, because that wouldn't be good sign.

Postive signs: I like her, she is fun and out going. She wanted to invite me to a small party next week, and she said she would love if I meet her friends and I can bring some friends ( If I go, I should make sure not to bring the always drunk friends). Also it looked liek that she was digging me, and she was all smiles and would love to go out again with me.

Negative sign. SHE SMOKES CIGARETTES ( marlboro reds to be exact). I don't smoke at all, I hate smoking and the smell of it.

 

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[Enron]

First of all thanks for all the advise, it really helped.
So I picked her up, she lives right next to the university campus just like me.
She asked me to come in to meet her roommate, So I did my best to not mess it up with the roommates. So later on we left to the Movie theatre north of campus by the mall, and I asked her what would you like watch. So I told her about what might be good and she thought the movie julie & julia could be a good one. I got the tickets. The Movie ended up to be really entertaining, I thought meryl streep was amazing. We had almost an hour until the movie so I took her to a nice mexican restaurant. I only had two Martinis, I didn't want go crazy on the drinks. After the movie we went for a little walk and grabbed some of my fav icecream (Marble slab) and had chance to talk, and was my favorite part of the whole date, because I knew alot about her. We talked about many things, you name it. And then dropped her home and left. I didn't go in and I didn't even tried to, because that wouldn't be good sign.

Postive signs: I like her, she is fun and out going. She wanted to invite me to a small party next week, and she said she would love if I meet her friends and I can bring some friends ( If I go, I should make sure not to bring the always drunk friends). Also she was digging me, and she was all smiles and would love to go out again with me.

Negative sign. SHE SMOKES CIGARETTES ( marlboro reds to be exact). I don't smoke at all, I hate smoking and the smell of it.

As far as the date went. It looks like you did a great job. If she's into you, then your goal is accomplished.

If you decide to put the smoking aside and go to this party. I suggest you not bring a friend, and if you do only one and one that can "be on his own". You want to hang out with her at the party and see how things go in a natural setting. Also her inviting you to this party is her way of seeing how you interact with other people, more accurately her friends. Either way, it seems to me that you did a good job and the ball is in your court. If it were me I'd continue to see her, just to see how it goes. Who knows, the love of your life could smoke Marlboro reds?

 

[swag]

Just got back from my first date with that girl. Some postive signs and some bad signs

Her father's name carved in scars on her forearms?

Nah, this ain't that bad news.

First of all thanks for all the advise, it really helped.
So I picked her up, she lives right next to the university campus just like me.
She asked me to come in to meet her roommate, So I did my best to not mess it up with the roommates. So later on we left to the Movie theatre north of campus by the mall, and I asked her what would you like watch. So I told her about what might be good and she thought the movie julie & julia could be a good one. I got the tickets. The Movie ended up to be really entertaining, I thought meryl streep was amazing.

Good choice, and good going.

We had almost an hour before the staret of the movie so I took her to a nice mexican restaurant. I only had two Martinis,

Martinis at a Mexican restaurant? What kind of Philistine are you!

I didn't want go crazy on the drinks. After the movie we went for a little walk and grabbed some of my fav icecream (Marble slab) and had chance to talk, and was my favorite part of the whole date, because I knew alot about her. We talked about many things, you name it. And then dropped her home and left. I didn't go in and I didn't even tried to, because that wouldn't be good sign.

Postive signs: I like her, she is fun and out going. She wanted to invite me to a small party next week, and she said she would love if I meet her friends and I can bring some friends ( If I go, I should make sure not to bring the always drunk friends). Also it looked liek that she was digging me, and she was all smiles and would love to go out again with me.

So far so good.

Negative sign. SHE SMOKES CIGARETTES ( marlboro reds to be exact). I don't smoke at all, I hate smoking and the smell of it.

Flush her like yesterday's doo-doo.

As far as the date went. It looks like you did a great job. If she's into you, then your goal is accomplished.

If you decide to put the smoking aside and go to this party. I suggest you not bring a friend, and if you do only one and one that can "be on his own". You want to hang out with her at the party and see how things go in a natural setting. Also her inviting you to this party is her way of seeing how you interact with other people, more accurately her friends. Either way, it seems to me that you did a good job and the ball is in your court. If it were me I'd continue to see her, just to see how it goes. Who knows, the love of your life could smoke Marlboro reds?

Good advice, Aaron.

But I have to be brutally honest with you right now, DA: if smoking is a small issue now, it's going to be HUGE if you ultimately expect the relationship to go anywhere.

 

[Enron]

Good advice, Aaron.

But I have to be brutally honest with you right now, DA: if smoking is a small issue now, it's going to be HUGE if you ultimately expect the relationship to go anywhere.

Smoking would be a turn off for me too, but if so many things are clicking there's no reason to cut her off after the first date.

 

[Bjerknes]

First of all thanks for all the advise, it really helped.
So I picked her up, she lives right next to the university campus just like me.
She asked me to come in to meet her roommate, So I did my best to not mess it up with the roommates. So later on we left to the Movie theatre north of campus by the mall, and I asked her what would you like watch. So I told her about what might be good and she thought the movie julie & julia could be a good one. I got the tickets. The Movie ended up to be really entertaining, I thought meryl streep was amazing. We had almost an hour before the staret of the movie so I took her to a nice mexican restaurant. I only had two Martinis, I didn't want go crazy on the drinks. After the movie we went for a little walk and grabbed some of my fav icecream (Marble slab) and had chance to talk, and was my favorite part of the whole date, because I knew alot about her. We talked about many things, you name it. And then dropped her home and left. I didn't go in and I didn't even tried to, because that wouldn't be good sign.

Postive signs: I like her, she is fun and out going. She wanted to invite me to a small party next week, and she said she would love if I meet her friends and I can bring some friends ( If I go, I should make sure not to bring the always drunk friends). Also it looked liek that she was digging me, and she was all smiles and would love to go out again with me.

Negative sign. SHE SMOKES CIGARETTES ( marlboro reds to be exact). I don't smoke at all, I hate smoking and the smell of it.

OH SHIT, I guess Burke and I are not invited then.

But overall, very well played. Good job with the roomies because they could be an obstacle, so if I was you I'd just be myself and charming in their presence.

Everything seems aight except for the smoking.

 

[Bjerknes]

Girls that smoke love a poke though!

 

[Enron]

 

[Delle Alpi]

As far as the date went. It looks like you did a great job. If she's into you, then your goal is accomplished.

If you decide to put the smoking aside and go to this party. I suggest you not bring a friend, and if you do only one and one that can "be on his own". You want to hang out with her at the party and see how things go in a natural setting. Also her inviting you to this party is her way of seeing how you interact with other people, more accurately her friends. Either way, it seems to me that you did a good job and the ball is in your court. If it were me I'd continue to see her, just to see how it goes. Who knows, the love of your life could smoke Marlboro reds?

I'm kind of a little bit turned off by the smoking part, but to be honest I do like her personality. I'm going to the party, but taking the friend part is going to be difficult, because my best 3 friends they like to get drunk, so picking a good one is going to be important. But I want to tell her about me not liking the smoking part.

 

[Bjerknes]

my best 3 friends they like to get drunk

Jeez, your friends sound like a few people I know.

Me, myself, and Burkey.

 

[Enron]

I'm kind of a little bit turned off by the smoking part, but to be honest I do like her personality. I'm going to the party, but taking the friend part is going to be difficult, because my best 3 friends they like to get drunk, so picking a good one is going to be important. But I want to tell her about me not liking the smoking part.

The key is picking a friend that is outgoing enough to be by himself while you hang out with the lady. Granted you want to meet everyone, but make sure that when you speak to her, she thinks she is the only person in the room.

 

[Quetzalcoatl]

But I have to be brutally honest with you right now, DA: if smoking is a small issue now, it's going to be HUGE if you ultimately expect the relationship to go anywhere.

That's the truth. It depends on you personally though.

 

[Delle Alpi]

OH SHIT, I guess Burke and I are not invited then.

But overall, very well played. Good job with the roomies because they could be an obstacle, so if I was you I'd just be myself and charming in their presence.

Everything seems aight except for the smoking.

Sorry Andy, you are not invited with burke. I'll make sure to invite you to the after party

 

[Delle Alpi]

Jeez, your friends sound like a few people I know.

Me, myself, and Burkey.

I usually like to enjoy my drinks in large portion too

 

[Delle Alpi]

Her father's name carved in scars on her forearms?

Nah, this ain't that bad news.



Good choice, and good going.



Martinis at a Mexican restaurant? What kind of Philistine are you!



So far so good.



Flush her like yesterday's doo-doo.



Good advice, Aaron.

But I have to be brutally honest with you right now, DA: if smoking is a small issue now, it's going to be HUGE if you ultimately expect the relationship to go anywhere.

Nope, she had her father name scarved right on her forhead
I'm a beer guy, but I had to act like a civilized person today

Smoking is a big deal, but I would still go to the party. I will talk to her about my dislike of smoking when I see her next

 

[Delle Alpi]

The key is picking a friend that is outgoing enough to be by himself while you hang out with the lady. Granted you want to meet everyone, but make sure that when you speak to her, she thinks she is the only person in the room.

Yes, I'll look in that. Also I have to open the smoking part with her very soon.. Hopefully she will understand me

 

[Enron]

Yes, I'll look in that. Also I have to open the smoking part with her very soon.. Hopefully she will understand me

Yeah definitely. But it's difficult to discuss an issue such as smoking if you barely know someone. Just remember, whatever happens, the motto is... Be Cool.

 

[Bjerknes]

Totally spot on... Peter Schiff for Senate. He actually understands this stuff.

 

[Enron]

You just wanted to say "Spot on".

 

[Bjerknes]

I usually like to enjoy my drinks in large portion too

Good man.

 

[Bjerknes]

You just wanted to say "Spot on".

I'd rather say "futures on"... that way I'd make more money. Can't make shit in the spot market.