blondu

Grazie Ale
Nov 9, 2006
27,412
hmm, you said it right there, relationship... It doesn't matter if one person gives all they can, if the are the only ones showing and giving its as doomed as the titanic i'm afraid.

I know what it's liked and trust me I've been there and it really hurt me, I'll let you in on it but I was going to go out with a girl who was a friend and we both liked each other this was when I was younger and I count this as the first time I told a girl I liked her.
So we arranged to go on a date (my first) and I got completely stood up. Anyway this isn't the point of the story but I swallowed my pride only to be stood up another 5 times! Yeah I gave up a lot of feelings and hope to do this and it really hurt, esspecially as we were good friends before. Trust me giving up things to be with somebody really doesn't work and i've learned it the hard way, you gotta play tougher, and I know it's not easy because it isn't my style either.
I have ignored the bitch ever since.
wow 5 times ? :shifty: you really didn't had to put so much soul because you didn't went out, didn't saw her's behaviour..her natural and not virtual thoughts. The fact is that i'm cursed, i pushed away all the girls that truly liked me (2 even loved me) for nothing, for stupid reasons, for being a spoiled kid or because of being to selfish or jealous. And i like only these girls who don't give a damn only at the beginning... I donno, i'm almost 22 and i need more time to develop a good taste at women, i gotta choose something that will get me long but not stressfull relationships..and i gotta stop dating 18 years olds
 

Luca

Senior Member
Apr 22, 2007
12,753
wow 5 times ? :shifty: you really didn't had to put so much soul because you didn't went out, didn't saw her's behaviour..her natural and not virtual thoughts. The fact is that i'm cursed, i pushed away all the girls that truly liked me (2 even loved me) for nothing, for stupid reasons, for being a spoiled kid or because of being to selfish or jealous. And i like only these girls who don't give a damn only at the beginning... I donno, i'm almost 22 and i need more time to develop a good taste at women, i gotta choose something that will get me long but not stressfull relationships..and i gotta stop dating 18 years olds
Yeah, well we were very good friends for a long time so I already knew her very well, even that we did match good, so tbf I did put a lot of heart into it, the fact that it was also my first time really put me down loads too as nobody wants to be stood up on their first date, the fact that we were friends aswell made it worse, because it was just incomprehensable.
Yeah maybe you should start going for girls more your age, if they are anything like the 18 year olds in this country then 80% of them want to just sleep around and fuck whoever they want, in other words they can be sluts.
Plus your a fireman you can pull anyone you want ;)
 

blondu

Grazie Ale
Nov 9, 2006
27,412
it's not like that i just hate how girls that are my age think...i've tested 3 of them and them all took my freedom in those months..it's like i was married...these 18 years old leave you be, understand you, aren't so stressfull but you can't know what's in their little head, today you are together tomorrow it's only a maybe. So i must find balance between these 2 ..
 

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