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L'autista
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I agree with everything you said there. I believe it's a fact that people don't know themselves and not regarding only the marriage but in every other aspect as well. I think majority of people is not even interested digging up and trying to see who exactly you are etc. For the same reason people are getting in the wrong uni, get the wrong (bad) job, etc. I don't know how it looked in the past but from what I've notice it seems that people are barely mature these days. They all want to enjoy themselves much and hardly anyone wants to invest time in the relationship and to build trust and something for the future. The temper is crazy.

However, I do believe that most (long lasting) relationships and marriages vanish because some third party appeared. So yeah, from what I can tell the divorce rate is insanely high and yeah, majority of the crashes is due to cheating OR simply because they've fallen in love with somebody else, being totally neutral to the partner etc. From my experience it's less than 10% of those long lasting relationships and marriages that crash due to other reasons.
Society bases a lot of its economic value in giving you distractions so you can avoid facing yourself.

Third parties can definitely mess things up between a couple. But at the same time, they are also invited in. They rarely just come barging in. And for reasons.

It's not so common that someone who is happily committed with someone else will jeopardize all of that when some new thot comes around ... unless there are underlying issues or missed and/or uncommunicated needs.

Remember: correlation is not causation.

so how does that make it wrong to marry a woman who makes more than a man? I wouldn’t have a problem with my wife making more than me at all, why would that marriage be destined to fail according to the previous posts?
No problem whatsoever. But much of society, men and women, have it culturally wrong.
 

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