Dostoevsky

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Your first three years of your life is the most important and friends have nothing to do with that.
I disagree. I'm not ignoring the importance of young age and parents role in it, but it's the (high) school period when usually people get some kind of psychological disorder duo to a different environment. It's mostly the other kids that influence the behavior of a child (which can be seen with the basic stuff like 'oh c'mon lets do it', they are new to everything and have never experienced pressure of people around them). Kids at the age of <5 are all angels pretty much. It's when they learn the stuff and when everything becomes repetitive, but there's no way that period is more important when it comes to shaping their personality.
 

Hængebøffer

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Jun 4, 2009
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I disagree. I'm not ignoring the importance of young age and parents role in it, but it's the (high) school period when usually people get some kind of psychological disorder duo to a different environment. It's mostly the other kids that influence the behavior of a child (which can be seen with the basic stuff like 'oh c'mon lets do it', they are new to everything and have never experienced pressure of people around them). Kids at the age of <5 are all angels pretty much. It's when they learn the stuff and when everything becomes repetitive, but there's no way that period is more important when it comes to shaping their personality.
The psychological disorder is usually a result of the lack of care the first three years. Dusan, this not up to debate, cause this is what research shows. But of course there's exceptions.
 

Dostoevsky

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Tapatalk is shit right now and I can't edit, but try work with kids under the age of 5 and you will not call them angels again, Duski :lol:
No worries. I won't card you for multiple posts... yet. :D

I meant in the way they can't even sin. It's not hard to coordinate them, I know it's tough for you but it's different since you're with a whole bunch of them.

The psychological disorder is usually a result of the lack of care the first three years. Dusan, this not up to debate, cause this is what research shows. But of course there's exceptions.
I usually like when they show research results, but sometimes it doesn't look natural. Not to me at least.

I know exactly what you mean and I've read about it, even heard such on the TV. However there are many, many examples where you see parents do a great job and there isn't anything strange with the kid. Later on everything changes and parents can't even influence on that at all. Some say it's a lack of attention, love, or what not. Or in the other case they abuse the child and do some even more terrible things. But it's not always like that and people do change later. I know some guys who changed later on, too many examples to just call it exceptions, as they stand out in a big number.
 

Nzoric

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Jan 16, 2011
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I don't think there'd be any major difference actually. As a kid you can even have an idol, but it's mostly individual steps we're making no matter the environment. You might have more or less freedom but the brain structure would stay the same.
This is down right counterfactual.
 

Kate

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I had a nice big lunch at home only to get back to work and find out a colleague was supposed to take me to lunch today. So I had a second massive lunch. Fucking hell.
 

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