Maddy

Oracle of Copenhagen
Jul 10, 2009
16,545
I will, soon enough. I don't want to move out and fail at it again, just to move back home again. One of the worst days ever - not because I dislike my family but because I failed. Oh and finding suitable apartment for the right amount of money in Copenhagen is an enigma in itself.
im selling my apartment to go abroad. wanna buy?
 

Fr3sh

Senior Member
Jul 12, 2011
37,255
So this morning while going to work I bumped into my ex at a train station. We haven't seen each other since we broke up, 2years or so now. She's a Quebecoise, I've never felt so close to a women like I have with her. We broke...actually I broke up with her because I was terrified of being heartbroken, I knew or perhaps thought I knew that things wouldn't last because we were (still are) young and I was scared of being too emotionally invested in her so like the giant pussy whole I was I left...

Like I said earlier haven't seen her for at least 2yrs, we talked on the train, she didn't have any resentment towards me (which for some reason made me feel like an even bigger piece of shit), she moved on, and is in a year long relationship with some guy.

Now I feel like an even bigger fuck up...I regret this soo much. Since this morning she was the only thing on my mind. But before I ran into her I never really thought about her....maybe I may be thinking about her because she's out of reach...or simply nostalgic.

Either way, I had to get this off my chest, don't feel comfortable talking to my coworkers 'bout stuff like this. A big spliff and a case is what I need when I get back home.
 

Völler

Always spot on
May 6, 2012
23,091
So this morning while going to work I bumped into my ex at a train station. We haven't seen each other since we broke up, 2years or so now. She's a Quebecoise, I've never felt so close to a women like I have with her. We broke...actually I broke up with her because I was terrified of being heartbroken, I knew or perhaps thought I knew that things wouldn't last because we were (still are) young and I was scared of being too emotionally invested in her so like the giant pussy whole I was I left...

Like I said earlier haven't seen her for at least 2yrs, we talked on the train, she didn't have any resentment towards me (which for some reason made me feel like an even bigger piece of shit), she moved on, and is in a year long relationship with some guy.

Now I feel like an even bigger fuck up...I regret this soo much. Since this morning she was the only thing on my mind. But before I ran into her I never really thought about her....maybe I may be thinking about her because she's out of reach...or simply nostalgic.

Either way, I had to get this off my chest, don't feel comfortable talking to my coworkers 'bout stuff like this. A big spliff and a case is what I need when I get back home.
I think it's nostalgia then. :) You probably just miss all the good times you had together, but since you never used to think about her before today, it probably wasn't meant to be. :)
 

Maddy

Oracle of Copenhagen
Jul 10, 2009
16,545
So this morning while going to work I bumped into my ex at a train station. We haven't seen each other since we broke up, 2years or so now. She's a Quebecoise, I've never felt so close to a women like I have with her. We broke...actually I broke up with her because I was terrified of being heartbroken, I knew or perhaps thought I knew that things wouldn't last because we were (still are) young and I was scared of being too emotionally invested in her so like the giant pussy whole I was I left...

Like I said earlier haven't seen her for at least 2yrs, we talked on the train, she didn't have any resentment towards me (which for some reason made me feel like an even bigger piece of shit), she moved on, and is in a year long relationship with some guy.

Now I feel like an even bigger fuck up...I regret this soo much. Since this morning she was the only thing on my mind. But before I ran into her I never really thought about her....maybe I may be thinking about her because she's out of reach...or simply nostalgic.

Either way, I had to get this off my chest, don't feel comfortable talking to my coworkers 'bout stuff like this. A big spliff and a case is what I need when I get back home.
mah man, i feel ya. probably old memories givin u a 'golden age'-feelin about the time u had together.
 

Jem83

maitre'd at Canal Bar
Nov 7, 2005
22,870
So this morning while going to work I bumped into my ex at a train station. We haven't seen each other since we broke up, 2years or so now. She's a Quebecoise, I've never felt so close to a women like I have with her. We broke...actually I broke up with her because I was terrified of being heartbroken, I knew or perhaps thought I knew that things wouldn't last because we were (still are) young and I was scared of being too emotionally invested in her so like the giant pussy whole I was I left...

Like I said earlier haven't seen her for at least 2yrs, we talked on the train, she didn't have any resentment towards me (which for some reason made me feel like an even bigger piece of shit), she moved on, and is in a year long relationship with some guy.

Now I feel like an even bigger fuck up...I regret this soo much. Since this morning she was the only thing on my mind. But before I ran into her I never really thought about her....maybe I may be thinking about her because she's out of reach...or simply nostalgic.

Either way, I had to get this off my chest, don't feel comfortable talking to my coworkers 'bout stuff like this. A big spliff and a case is what I need when I get back home.
You made a mistake back then, but there's no reason to tell you that as you're already aware of it. Why your heart would ache for her at this point is more difficult to have an opinion on. It may be because you still love her (but you not having thought about her for a year makes this option less likely), it may be because she's unattainable now as you said, and it may be because facing her today made you realize your mistake to the fullest and made you feel like a schmuck.

I'm thinking the latter is what's going on here, and that you will snap out of it soon enough. Just know that we all make mistakes.
 

Martin

Senior Member
Dec 31, 2000
56,913
You made a mistake back then, but there's no reason to tell you that as you're already aware of it. Why your heart would ache for her at this point is more difficult to have an opinion on. It may be because you still love her (but you not having thought about her for a year makes this option less likely), it may be because she's unattainable now as you said, and it may be because facing her today made you realize your mistake to the fullest and made you feel like a schmuck.

I'm thinking the latter is what's going on here, and that you will snap out of it soon enough. Just know that we all make mistakes.
I say. The lawyer is not a bad shrink either.
 

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