++ [ originally posted by gray
] ++
you been reading the Bible, Elnur?
My advice (which you probably shouldn't take since I'm not the 'picking up a stranger at a nightclub' type) is to not be so goal-oriented. Don't look at a girl, walk up to her and think only of getting into her pants, because your actions will follow accordingly and you'll probably come on too strong and creep her out (unless you're good at controlling your hormones, which I'm assuming you're not, since most people can't

). Just be friendly and interesting (and perhaps more importantly, be interest
ed)