It's the default setting. You are a tuz veteran, you should know that. But i get it, the heat is doing no good, combine it with beer and it get's even worse, so i'll let it slip.
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That's true i guess, but you still have to seperate between tolerance and acceptance. I'd imagine there are quite a lot anti-gay people in the former group, but they won't openly say it.