++ [ originally posted by Torkel ] ++
First of, we were past the idiot stage. I wouldn't edit a post where someone accused someone of talking shit. But anyways:
This messageboard is unlike many other messageboards fairly homogenous and peacefull. People root for the same team, like many of the same players, etc. When conflict erupts, it can often strike quite hard, at least when I've seen it happen. We've previously said that politics is off limits here. We tried it, trouble came, and it was clear that people had very different opinions on a subject. American politics, 9/11 and other similar topics are very sensitive, as people have very strong opinions about it. Some people hate America and globalization, some people love America and American culture. The American thread was IMO getting nasty. I had given out several warnings, they didn't help. Also, the discussion had somehwat died out, and wasn't very constructive, and had derailed to namecalling.
I therefore closed the thread. I also edited the worst of Zlatan's post, as I was afraid that if it would have stood it would lead to Vinman replying in a similar or worse fashion, and the problem wouldn't disappear. I sendt a PM to Zlatan to explain why I did it. What you feel was so wrong here I don't know. The edited post; if you're so keen on dirty words let me know and I'll send you a PM with some. The thread: it was full of arguments and fighting, it was going nowhere. If you felt they should have continued there's not much I can do there. If you miss the actual discussion in the thread that was "legal" according to the rules open a new thread and try again.
Im not against closing threads. Your right its quite simple to start a new thread. And in fact i wasnt only talking about this specific thread.
I dont mean to sound like a dick, but I just dont agree with the way mods do alot of things around here. In brief:
About the American thread: Fair enough an argument happened that made it be closed. But look back, moderators were already throwing out pre warnings long before.
Posting out public warnings: Moderators often post a warning addressed to a specific person in the thread. Surely PM is a better choice. Rather than post in public almost as if to show authority.
Relentless offtopic warnings: A thread goes off topic, in the event that that thread is already dead why not let it continue, the off topic is always a result of something in the thread and often more exciting or better discussion than the original thread. Moderators post more public warnings about keeping on topic and people stop the good discussion. Splitting of the threads helped, but now because some people didnt like that it has been completely stopped.
Moderators telling a person how to react or what to do: This has happened to me a few times, and ive seen it happen to others countless times, and usually it hasnt been against any rules. Moderators can close threads etc, but I dont see telling people how to react is acceptable.
Is it in the moderator guidlines that you should do this? Also without sounding stuck up the moderators doing this are not in any way smarter/wiser than the person they are giving advise to. I just think I can decide how I should react better than anyone else can decide how I should.
On a strictly personal note; In the future I would mind it if you try and be a little more constructive in your criticism. Instead of saying that you think the forum is like playschool you could bring your tips and ideas on the table. Through your posts in the forum (I admit that I've only seen a small number of them though) you seem like a very criticising person, who lacks the humour and somewhat slanty view on things that to me makes your blog entertaining.
Ive made these points before, not going to keep repeating myself. And in relation to my post count, a very small number have been critising and nothing has been serious since the Euro ended.
If would also like to assure you that I'm also only trying to do the best I can for the forum through my moderation. I simply don't have another reason for closing a thread and editing posts, at least when both Vinman and Zlatan are involved, two people I like and think contribute very well to the forum. I try and relate to and uphold the forum rules. Do you think I don't manage in doing that, or is it the actual rules you have a problem with? the rules are written by Martin, the owner of the site, who actually can do whatever he wants here. If the problem is there I don't think there's much you can do.
I'm off to a party now, and if I for a second think about this issue while I'm there I'm gonna be seriously pissed.
Im not questioning how you are moderating. Your only doing what is the way around here. Its not the rules I dont agree with, just the points I made above. And of course its Martins forum and I would respect any decision Martin would make. But Martin hasnt advised me about how to react/respond or posted a warning etc in public that could have been done in private.
In saying all that im not asking for anything to be changed or trying to be some kind of rebel. Just dont expect me to keep inline with advise given because i simply wont unless i agree with it.
This case may have been a bad example. personally i would let any argument run its course until it reaches a very personally level. This argument wasnt anything that major as far as i see it. Of course I can understand how people with different attitudes wouldnt want that, but at least they can treat everyone as adults and give it a chance.