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Majed

Senior Member
Jul 17, 2002
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** patts Vit on the Back and applauds her great memory** :D
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i think i do remember. Was it when i said that you aren't an angel after all?!
 

Hydde

Minimiliano Tristelli
Mar 6, 2003
38,985
++ [ originally posted by BloodOnMoral ] ++
Well, I had enough nerves for today, but I'm still hanging on this thread, and maybe that thing Ian was talking about, I mean more passion and feeling on the boards, is what we need.

First of all, to combat Arturo - you know, we girls are kind of different from you, boys, but I'm sure this was a lesson your mother gave you since you were like 2 years old and digging in the sand. We have different ways of acting. Myself, I am one of the most affectionate and affective persons on these forums, and you know that. I am really attaching myself from certain people around, that is due to my simple character maybe, one that wishes everything to be nice and peaceful. But I don't fill 2 pages with kisses and hugs. Those are for MSN and PM and other M things. You are right and wrong at the same time, and that is controversial. You should know that, for a girl like me, living in this forgotten by God Romania, these forums are a blessing. And I don't mind if you are a serial killer. And another thing : I could swear that you were never hypocrit, as you said, and I was never. And you know why : because at this age of us we all have a kind of honesty and innocence still kept, no matter how macho you think you are :). So stop complaining about that. But on the other side : girls, less kisses and loves s'il vous plait. Those are just made to confuse us ;)
OK, cool post bloody sunday!, but, first of all, i never mentioned your name;) , so if you think that you are the smilie poster, i cant do a thing about it. :p

About the romania and forum blessing... ok i can understand all what you said, its cool to be lovely with people and so on. Hey but there outside is a world that is waiting for you!. You cant be attached all your life to this forum!. Plase understand and take that advise.

About the serial killer thing, it was just and example bloody!. It was just to show that you cant know enough someone from the internet, to love him. Thas my point. the online dates and so on, i dont believe in that BS, why? because to know and love someone, you need to share a lot of experiences, good and bad, in the real life. In that way youll undertand and learn much more about that person. Here you can know something, but just the things that the other one wants you to know. Understand?. And of course im not hipocrisy.

About the problen. Well although your post was good, i still believe that the problem is there.
 

vitoria_Ally

Senior Member
Jul 14, 2002
7,232
++ [ originally posted by Majed ] ++
** patts Vit on the Back and applauds her great memory** :D
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i think i do remember. Was it when i said that you aren't an angel after all?!

Nope :D

You're trying to excuse yourself, telling things like: however I think all Poles are very nice, cause I know one of them and Vit is very nice to all must be nice :angel::D <----- your words :D

It was in the end of October last year, maybe 5-7 days before the forum crashed for few weeks ;)
 

BloodOnMoral

Senior Member
Jun 4, 2003
4,232
++ [ originally posted by Hydde ] ++


OK, cool post bloody sunday!, but, first of all, i never mentioned your name;) , so if you think that you are the smilie poster, i cant do a thing about it. :p

About the romania and forum blessing... ok i can understand all what you said, its cool to be lovely with people and so on. Hey but there outside is a world that is waiting for you!. You cant be attached all your life to this forum!. Plase understand and take that advise.

About the serial killer thing, it was just and example bloody!. It was just to show that you cant know enough someone from the internet, to love him. Thas my point. the online dates and so on, i dont believe in that BS, why? because to know and love someone, you need to share a lot of experiences, good and bad, in the real life. In that way youll undertand and learn much more about that person. Here you can know something, but just the things that the other one wants you to know. Understand?. And of course im not hipocrisy.

About the problen. Well although your post was good, i still believe that the problem is there.
Thank you.

I have never pretended to love somebody on these forums, in the way I am thinking now. I care about some persons, that is true, but many of them I know better than you might think, because voice doesn't cheat and faces don't lie, and I think I'm still able to distinguish a serial killer from a computer expert ;). I've got 9 from 10 after all at Anders' test.

Then, you are not powered to decide how am I spending my life. Trust me, you don't know nothing about my other life, the real life, to call it like that, as code name. What I'm doing on these forums is totally different form my life, which is more rougher than you might thought. But we are not discussiong psichology and I'm not coming here to complain. And, especially, we are not talking about anybody particullary. But indeed it was my mistake to remind you of my feelings.

And no, I'm not a smilie poster :)
 

Hydde

Minimiliano Tristelli
Mar 6, 2003
38,985
++ [ originally posted by BloodOnMoral ] ++


Thank you.

I have never pretended to love somebody on these forums, in the way I am thinking now. I care about some persons, that is true, but many of them I know better than you might think, because voice doesn't cheat and faces don't lie, and I think I'm still able to distinguish a serial killer from a computer expert ;). I've got 9 from 10 after all at Anders' test.

Then, you are not powered to decide how am I spending my life. Trust me, you don't know nothing about my other life, the real life, to call it like that, as code name. What I'm doing on these forums is totally different form my life, which is more rougher than you might thought. But we are not discussiong psichology and I'm not coming here to complain. And, especially, we are not talking about anybody particullary. But indeed it was my mistake to remind you of my feelings.

And no, I'm not a smilie poster :)
As i though. I was going to edit that part of my message and change it, but im a lazy bum i didnt do it ;) .

I send and advise, not an order bloody, please understand that. If you think that what i said will help you, take it, if not, leave it. Simple as that.

This is an example of what i was saying before. You cant know someone completely from here.
 

Slagathor

Bedpan racing champion
Jul 25, 2001
22,708
++ [ originally posted by Rickenbacker2 ] ++
Right mates, I've had just about enough of all this lovey dovey, "I love you", "You're the best" crap! It's seriously killing me. What happened to the days when it only took one word to set off a 100 post long arguement that went on for months? What happened to the times when people were serious about football? Now, all I see is people saying how much they love this player, and that player, and all these teams, and all that, and the "hate" threads are all about how hate is bad. What is that? Is it me, or was it more fun when people got pissed off about things? I thought that it was great when all you had to do was say you hated the English NT, and you'd have a bunch of hooligans on calling you a bigot and a racist, and trying to tell you that the English NT was the best thing since sliced bread. All of the passionate posters have left! Where is Paul? Where is Mac? What happened to Jules, Glen, Matt, Nekton, and IGOR? Where did they go? Even Denco isn't around much, hell, even I'm slipping...

So, I've got that out, but I've got a lot more to say, but somebody please, please get pissed off about this and let me know!
Well I can't say I'm a big fan of the lovey dovey crap, as you so gently put it but a community automatically shapes itselfs to the majority, just like society.

Right now we, like it or not, have a lot of people around here that DO like that mushy crap and so there are many threads to be found of the wave-length thereof.

What I suggest you do is get some people and start some fierce discussions on football related matters. Guests visiting this forum who like such discussions will register and join the battle, shifting the balance back again.
 
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Ian
Jul 12, 2002
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    ++ [ originally posted by Sunshine ] ++
    ok, i hv to say i agree mostly with all that Vit, Fabiana and the 1st part of -S- posts. ( not just cos they r gurls, i've read through all the posts and these r the 1's that made the most sense to me.

    To Iulia and Gray, no worries, i diddn't take anything personally. This guy Ian seams to want heated arguments so i just try to be less nice. Thank u both 4 yr concern.

    As for Ian, i'm afraid i guess i share diff opinion from u. I understand the 'passion' that u want and i agree that dissagreements r gd. It is exciting to hv a clash of opinions. But the part where i dun connect with u is why do these hv to 2 get people pissed off? U almost seam to want the rage more than u want the challenge/ discussion. For me i can hv such arugments with people but i use gd points to back up my opinion and i can do it just s well in a calm way. i dun need to get heated up abt things. For me, rage doesn't =passion. Just b cos u're willing to throw a buch of unpleasent insults @ yr opponennt doesn't prove to say that u r the biggest Juve Van, the biggest Van Der Sar fan or whatever point yr trying to prove.

    If after that u still dun get what i'm saying, well just read this thread again. Dun u see that that there r many people here who can put their piont up strongly without blowing their top? Do u see that some times the angry things that people say : eg. stupid gurls!, instead of showing yr 'passion' just makes u look really nearrow minded (when u r not) n thus not worth hving any further convo with? Hv u considered that this might b a reason why some people just dun bother to answer u? What the point if 1/2 yr posts r unpleasent insults? I'm here to challenge yr point of view not challenge who's fiercer.

    S i've said, i agree with the main point of yr thread. The lack of passion, the spaming, but they way u r going abt this ain't going to solve zilch IMHO. Y? cos this world consists of may different personalities and u're is just 1 of them. Some of u say that the gurls who talk too much rubbish and should start a chat or something for those who think the same as them and all that.....well u're not wrong, but then again, same to u. U're living in the world of heated arguments and past posters. This forum ain't just abt u and the people who r in yr click n think like u, so trying to ask every 1 to do this.
    Well, I think that I've deciphered that mess of seudo-egnlish correctly (sorry, but I appreaciate whole words). MY point is not that I want people to be angry all the time, my point is that the forums were fun when people got angry about things. They loved their team so much that people saying derrogatory things made them angry. I want people to stop being so accomodating. Be nice, be pleasant, but don't back down. That's what happens too much, people back down when there is still plenty of discussion to be had, and that is my point. I suppose that the use of the words pissed off were used because people are less likely to let an arguement go, if they are emotionally involved in it. That's what I mean, it used to be that people had some concept of consequnce, that they could construct or construe some type of meanig or importance from what goes on here. I don't see that anymore...
     
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    Ian
    Jul 12, 2002
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    ++ [ originally posted by Alex ] ++
    What are you keeping a scoreboard? :doh::D
    Actually, yes.

    Ian 0-5 Martin
    Ian 1-4 Paul
    Ian 1-3 Glen
    Ian 4-2 Christian_Vieri
    Ian 2-2 Mac
    Ian 1-1 Nina
    Ian 1-0 Majed

    It goes something about like that...;)
     
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    Ian
    Jul 12, 2002
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    ++ [ originally posted by Matto ] ++
    Well I can't say I'm a big fan of the lovey dovey crap, as you so gently put it but a community automatically shapes itselfs to the majority, just like society.

    Right now we, like it or not, have a lot of people around here that DO like that mushy crap and so there are many threads to be found of the wave-length thereof.

    What I suggest you do is get some people and start some fierce discussions on football related matters. Guests visiting this forum who like such discussions will register and join the battle, shifting the balance back again.
    Yes, indeed, you are probably right, as usual. But, I'd rather not have to resort to that, if you know what I mean. I imagine, that this revolution you propose would alienate so many people that it may not be worth it. I mean, the things that I'd have to do personally, are numerous and potentially hazardous, which is why I started this thread. I still hold the hope that through a bit of discourse we can all acknowlege the issues that exist here and work towards a more balanced forum. Now I sound soft, don't I?

    Nevertheless, I shall indeed work toward that goal you set before me.
     

    Majed

    Senior Member
    Jul 17, 2002
    9,630
    ++ [ originally posted by Rickenbacker2 ] ++


    Actually, yes.

    Ian 0-5 Martin
    Ian 1-4 Paul
    Ian 1-3 Glen
    Ian 4-2 Christian_Vieri
    Ian 2-2 Mac
    Ian 1-1 Nina
    Ian 1-0 Majed

    It goes something about like that...;)
    if we count how many times i pissed you off, i'm sure the scoreline would be different ;)
     

    Majed

    Senior Member
    Jul 17, 2002
    9,630
    ++ [ originally posted by vitoria_Ally ] ++



    Nope :D

    You're trying to excuse yourself, telling things like: however I think all Poles are very nice, cause I know one of them and Vit is very nice to all must be nice :angel::D <----- your words :D

    It was in the end of October last year, maybe 5-7 days before the forum crashed for few weeks ;)
    i dont think those are my exact words...
    i remember saying something like "there are a lot of Polish Jokes that portray them as "snot smart," but i dont agree with them and Vit is the biggest example proving that the jokes are completey unjestified....."


    though i'm not exactly sure.....your memory :thumb: is a hell of a lot better than mine :stress:

    but one thing's for sure, I Never make Judgements or believe sterotyping races because its one of the most things in the world that i can't stand. (along with being Stuck-up, and close mined....i guess all these fall under "ignorance").
     

    gray

    Senior Member
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    Apr 22, 2003
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    There's two things I can't stand: People who can't tolerate other people's cultures... and the dutch!
     

    vitoria_Ally

    Senior Member
    Jul 14, 2002
    7,232
    ++ [ originally posted by Majed ] ++


    i dont think those are my exact words...
    i remember saying something like "there are a lot of Polish Jokes that portray them as "snot smart," but i dont agree with them and Vit is the biggest example proving that the jokes are completey unjestified....."


    though i'm not exactly sure.....your memory :thumb: is a hell of a lot better than mine :stress:

    but one thing's for sure, I Never make Judgements or believe sterotyping races because its one of the most things in the world that i can't stand. (along with being Stuck-up, and close mined....i guess all these fall under "ignorance").

    Nope, you said what I almost quoted above :angel:

    Oh no worry about that, it was just such thought, when you said about pissing off, Sorry for bringing it up, I couldnt resist to ask you about old thing, if you remember that :angel:

    And no worry again, I know you a bit on this forum, read you and know, that you are not such kind of person :):)

    You just wanted to kid me then :groan::D
     

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