Lol it's not that simple or otherwise there would be no such thing as school bullying and the likes, not even just kids, there are people all over the world who are being bullied over not having the right shape of nose for example, in such cases there is no ability to choose.
And that's the thing, people are religious because it has been forced into them from birth, religion became their identity just like their noses are, of course they're gonna get offended.
And what does that accomplish anyway?
Anyway, on the other hand, the wokism thing is once again showing the ugly side of western leftist. Just create other boxes if you want to insist on all those non binary gender things...
Make trans athletes compete in their own trans category, make trans public restrooms etc, what's so hard about it? If you value social harmony then don't intrude on social order that has been established for thousands of years... Don't expect normal people to remember if some obscure person wants to be referred to as some weird identity and the likes, that game of semantics only works for certain languages as well.
Conservatives, liberals, same shit from both sides.