++ [ originally posted by Andy ] ++
Woa, don't go that far Nicola. We thank Berlusca for the little kindness after one of his own players injured one of our's, however I can still hear those "vaffanculos" clamoring from the Bel Paese.
And anyway, aren't Italians smarter than that? In the Season With Verona book Tim Parks writes about when the Brigate went down to the Bari game, and one of the Gialloblu fans lost his special Verona hat...it flew towards the Bari section in the stands that was controlled by the police. The Verona fan screamed to the Police, however they wouldn't do anything about it. Then the fan protested and asked the Bari supporters to fetch his hat for him, and kindly enough they did, luckily enough, throwing it back to him. The Brigate broke out in a song of praise to the Bari supporters, "Forza Bari," and there seemed to be a general feeling of compassion between the two groups. Then shortly after kickoff, the Brigate continued their usual "Bari Bari vaffanculo!" and the home side fought back with their anti-Veronese slander.
Is this the norm in Italy? If one party makes a very nice gesture towards the other, such as in the case above, or Berlusca loaning us Abbiati, the other group is eager to give them thanks, almost following an unwritten law in Italian culture. However, when the good deed is forgotten and all is well again, the animosity seems to return and both parties continue on with their old ways. I can tell you one thing, Milan will not recieve any songs of praise when we meet them later this season (so I assume). So could this Berlusca ploy actually succeed in such an enviorment of thanks but no thanks?
Woa, don't go that far Nicola. We thank Berlusca for the little kindness after one of his own players injured one of our's, however I can still hear those "vaffanculos" clamoring from the Bel Paese.
And anyway, aren't Italians smarter than that? In the Season With Verona book Tim Parks writes about when the Brigate went down to the Bari game, and one of the Gialloblu fans lost his special Verona hat...it flew towards the Bari section in the stands that was controlled by the police. The Verona fan screamed to the Police, however they wouldn't do anything about it. Then the fan protested and asked the Bari supporters to fetch his hat for him, and kindly enough they did, luckily enough, throwing it back to him. The Brigate broke out in a song of praise to the Bari supporters, "Forza Bari," and there seemed to be a general feeling of compassion between the two groups. Then shortly after kickoff, the Brigate continued their usual "Bari Bari vaffanculo!" and the home side fought back with their anti-Veronese slander.
Is this the norm in Italy? If one party makes a very nice gesture towards the other, such as in the case above, or Berlusca loaning us Abbiati, the other group is eager to give them thanks, almost following an unwritten law in Italian culture. However, when the good deed is forgotten and all is well again, the animosity seems to return and both parties continue on with their old ways. I can tell you one thing, Milan will not recieve any songs of praise when we meet them later this season (so I assume). So could this Berlusca ploy actually succeed in such an enviorment of thanks but no thanks?
There seems to be an unwritten law in Italy that says you are to treat your enemies with the same respect you treat your friends.
But I could be wrong. I'm still Dutch after all.
