Im with Nick regarding the distinction to be made between being a jerk and being a bigot. I doubt Don Bes ever took the comments about Albanian immigrants or whatever as anything else than friendly teasing, though I may be wrong. For the record, my best friend here is English. He calls me every name in the book, from pizza-faced surrender monkey to lady boy woperino. I return the compliment with the likes of red-faced roastbeef muncher and bad teethed limey bastard. It’s all good though. Jaecole's comments however were dead serious, and even if they were directed at the Italians in "Jae’s world", they had the effect of diminishing an entire race, as indeed did my reply to him.
Im with Paul regarding the alleged pervasive anti-Americanism on this forum. A few people - mostly clueless teenagers jumping on the bandwagon - make some cheap shots. Others (Seven) "get political" and should stop listening to the Belgian socialpigs. Finally you have those (Paul) who opt for constructive criticism and make valid points that remain unadressed or are being lumped together with the rest and labelled as anti-American. I remember having been called that myself when I tried to jump into a discussion about the Presidential election last year. I remember Andy telling me it was none of my business. Well guess what : it is my business too. What affects you affects me as well, and vice versa. I will never understand Andy’s blind nationalism and unability to indulge into self-criticism. One thing is defending your country against prejudice and unwarranted attacks, another is being unable to listen and acknowledge your faults when needed, and by doing the latter you only foster the former. If someone insults my country and my people, then of course I will react badly. But if he is trying to have a serious discussion with me about, say, post WW2 Christian Democracy in Italy, I will be more than glad to oblige. I will never call him anti-Italian for what he has to say. All he must make sure of is to come up with good arguments, because in me he will find someone more than capable of addressing them and, if necessary, debunking them.
Im with Paul regarding the alleged pervasive anti-Americanism on this forum. A few people - mostly clueless teenagers jumping on the bandwagon - make some cheap shots. Others (Seven) "get political" and should stop listening to the Belgian socialpigs. Finally you have those (Paul) who opt for constructive criticism and make valid points that remain unadressed or are being lumped together with the rest and labelled as anti-American. I remember having been called that myself when I tried to jump into a discussion about the Presidential election last year. I remember Andy telling me it was none of my business. Well guess what : it is my business too. What affects you affects me as well, and vice versa. I will never understand Andy’s blind nationalism and unability to indulge into self-criticism. One thing is defending your country against prejudice and unwarranted attacks, another is being unable to listen and acknowledge your faults when needed, and by doing the latter you only foster the former. If someone insults my country and my people, then of course I will react badly. But if he is trying to have a serious discussion with me about, say, post WW2 Christian Democracy in Italy, I will be more than glad to oblige. I will never call him anti-Italian for what he has to say. All he must make sure of is to come up with good arguments, because in me he will find someone more than capable of addressing them and, if necessary, debunking them.
