Ok but don't you think there's a slight flaw in this concept? You have said that you'll leave if you lose, but dg hasn't. So in other words, if you lose and you choose to honor your stance, you have to leave. But dg has no such obligation because he never took a stand on the issue. See my point? 
If you poll on this, you might could just say that you'll leave if you get 5 or less votes.
If you poll on this, you might could just say that you'll leave if you get 5 or less votes.
