Thank you. Now this is rational. And if it matters, but I think it doesn't, I'm not very tall, have a rather brown skin and have dark hair. If I'd walk around in Italy, no one would guess I'm not Italian. I suppose that, based on genetics, I'm as "Italian" as Vinman is. The only ones I consider to be Italians however, are those who hold an Italian passport.
I don't see why people think I want to be an Italian. I'm proud to be Belgian and I'm proud to be European. If I could choose to be Italian or Belgian, I'd like to be Belgian.
I haven't been in Napoli once. I've been there a couple of times. Five, maybe six. I've been pretty much everywhere in Italy. Sicilia, Sardegna, Lazio, Piemonte, Lombardia, Calabria.. I have visited every single one of the 20 regions.
You've been in Italy when you were five years old and you consider yourself Italian. That's just plain wrong. There's no excuse for such a fundamental lack of rationale. It does explain why you're not familiar with traffic situations in Napoli. I think everyone who has ever been in Napoli will tell you what I'm telling you. Napoletani will be the first ones to admit I'm right anyway.
In conclusion, you don't speak Italian and you haven't been to Italy ever since you were five. On what basis was it again that you claim to be an Italian?