My ex is getting married (1 Viewer)

Chxta

Onye kwe, Chi ya ekwe
Nov 1, 2004
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#1
I feel so terrible, I just found out today too. We broke it off shortly before I met Uju, we had dated for about a year and half.

I don’t know why she would snub me like this though because I thought we were friends, even though I broke it off because she cheated on me but I don’t really want to go into details. They even have a wedding website and they seem so happy together.

Did she forget? Is she angry or embarrassed or what? At least I thought we remained friends (maybe not close). Maybe I am just over reacting...
 

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Bozi

The Bozman
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Oct 18, 2005
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#2
you moved on and are happy now, trust me mate no matter how good terms you may end on you cant hold a friendship with an ex. it either ends up with arguements or more sex and then it gets complicated.
trust me man, forget about it, be happy for her and concentrate on your lovely woman
 

Badass J Elkann

It's time to go!!
Feb 12, 2006
68,897
#3
I feel so terrible, I just found out today too. We broke it off shortly before I met Uju, we had dated for about a year and half.

I don’t know why she would snub me like this though because I thought we were friends, even though I broke it off because she cheated on me but I don’t really want to go into details. They even have a wedding website and they seem so happy together.

Did she forget? Is she angry or embarrassed or what? At least I thought we remained friends (maybe not close). Maybe I am just over reacting...
bah wtf u need ur ex for when u have juve
 
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Chxta

Chxta

Onye kwe, Chi ya ekwe
Nov 1, 2004
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    you moved on and are happy now, trust me mate no matter how good terms you may end on you cant hold a friendship with an ex. it either ends up with arguements or more sex and then it gets complicated.
    trust me man, forget about it, be happy for her and concentrate on your lovely woman
    :kiss:

    You always know how to reach into me..
     
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    Chxta

    Chxta

    Onye kwe, Chi ya ekwe
    Nov 1, 2004
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    You are treading on very dangerous waters with that thread...
     

    Bozi

    The Bozman
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    Oct 18, 2005
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    #8
    you know i love you man, just beglad that it concentrates your mind elsewhere

    see i did it for your own good
     

    Snoop

    Sabet is a nasty virgin
    Oct 2, 2001
    28,186
    #9
    I feel so terrible, I just found out today too. We broke it off shortly before I met Uju, we had dated for about a year and half.

    I don’t know why she would snub me like this though because I thought we were friends, even though I broke it off because she cheated on me but I don’t really want to go into details. They even have a wedding website and they seem so happy together.

    Did she forget? Is she angry or embarrassed or what? At least I thought we remained friends (maybe not close). Maybe I am just over reacting...
    I know this will sound mean, but what's the website address? :D


    Curiosity :angel2:
     

    gray

    Senior Member
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    Apr 22, 2003
    30,260
    #13
    You need to move on Chets. You've got a girlfriend now. To be really honest I think it's really self-centred to take this personally.

    "I can't believe she would snub me like this" ?

    Sorry to break it to you, but I'm pretty certain her marriage has nothing to do with you.

    Don't get me wrong - I'm not trying to be harsh here, but then again I'm not about to give you the "there there, it'll be okay" talk, because you're totally thinking about this the wrong way.

    As for remaining friends... it's a nice ideal, but in most situations, friendship just doesn't work after a relationship, and a lot of the time it's better to just move on completely instead of leaving a mess behind.

    My two cents.
     

    swag

    L'autista
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    Sep 23, 2003
    84,749
    #15
    Inviting ex'es to a wedding is a weird thing -- for the bride and groom, let alone their family and friends. Few can pull it off right.

    Perhaps having you there would have reminded her of her cheating past, etc. -- something she didn't want to introduce on her wedding day.

    In any case, sounds like you're much better off to be away from that scenario anyway.
     

    Menace

    Senior Member
    Apr 22, 2005
    3,988
    #16
    Fvck her, if someone isn't as loyal to me as I am to him. I wouldn't give two shits if he dies or get eatin by a crocodile. You should just enjoy yourself and think of her as your former little filthy pig who amused you.
     

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