Its a general thing.
"when do you start kids"
To young (we are 27 & 31)
"when do you marry"
she said when she's 50
"when are you buying a house (i returned to study between 24-30, so renting atm)
When we decide on a region
can be coupled with 'not here, to far from civilisation'
Offcourse, training rigoureus for a sport with the aim of beeing competitive, is seen as extremely bad. Cause family wants you to $#@!ing breed. So they can pet it or act like an exploding ovary for 5 minutes with it. And you need to be at home and reproduce and visit everyone.
We visit family in law all the damn time. Fine, she needs to be close to them and i get that. But if we cant come once cause i have a hard training in my cycle that i need to rest and prepare for or recover from, its the end of the world.