You're right. Spare a thought for their kids. Its real sad, that they're used as alibis just because some people need to cover their insecurities with a 'normal' life.
Well I'm altogether not entirely certain that men living such lives are doing it out of fear to admit to their feelings or summat of the sort. I think many of them genuinely enjoy their lives the way they live them and are happy that way.
I know, however, that I could never be happy so I 'chose' a different life.
please, dont remind me that. my parents left for a month and i managed everything except cooking. thank god though, for the albanian culture so everyday i would have a family friend brining me something to eat.
1. At home:
Frozen food, sandwiches, protien shakes, ready-sliced salads..etc. That kind of garbage.
2. At the university/work:
The Cafeteria or out to nearby restuerant.
3. Other:
A couple of my buddies are good cooks, so I used to eat with them (their apartments are the hangouts anyway), then I do the dishes. Now, my brother lives near by, so it's the same deal.
It's no replacement for mom's food, but it works.
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Oh, and I do have one policy that I've upheld for a good while. NO FASTFOOD!