She's just embarrassed, since I destabilize her every time I post.
Yeah, don't generalize, please.
What gives you the right to do so ?
I hate where I live, not necessarily all Canada, but it's done a lot to make me suspicious of them. It's absolute crap. You can't get good food, no entertainment comes here because it's a shithole, and everything is really, really expensive. The young people who live here think they're the best thing that ever happened, and are really rude to foreigners.
I don't know, it's just crap. I wouldn't want my kids growing up here. But that's just this city.
I know what you mean, i've been in such situations myself.
I grew up in a small town with alot of green zones in it, really liked the place, friendly people etc.
The past 4 years i have lived at my studenthome in Kiel. Its a multicultural area. Its dirty, boring, nearly nobody speaks dutch or french, probelm youth, mostly morrocan on every streetcorner with cocky behavior. The few actual belgians who live here are mostly marginal people in trainingsuits, or very unfriendly elderly.
I never felt at home, living in a room in a concrete 3 story building.
Sure, i've met some guys who were friendly, mostly comming from iraq or dubai, but generally they keep to themselves and you feel shut down.
Local food is 90% kebab. Not good kebab like the friendly turks in vilvoorde or strombeek make, but very poor quality overpriced antwerp kebab. Take aways are
expensive, trams are allways late and full of problemseekers with their loud shitr&b/dutch rap music.
I know exactly what you mean when you say you wouldnt want to raise kids there...
But look. In september we moved to aartselaar, wich is a relatively green town. Its not a cheap area, but its such an amazing place to live. I love this appartment and the surrounding. Friendly people, i can actually talk to, and regular youth who are buzy about their education, entertainment or hobby's rather then "get of my street".
You can do this aswell. Its never to late to just move to another well chosen area. And i know you would become so much happier. Dont lose hope Kate