Burqa (32 Viewers)

[Fred]

You are wrong. I always hated the hijab. Most of my friends are still religious but in private conversations they admit that they are forced to wear the hijab and they wouldn't do it if they are allowed to.

Forced by the state or their parents?

 

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[Azzurri7]

By the parents I suppose. I can say that 90% of Arab women are forced by their parents/relatives and society.

 

[king Ale]

The state. Their parents don't need to force them to wear a hijab when the state is already doing that.

 

[Azzurri7]

Btw Fred, if you had to choose between a girl wearing a Hijab and another girl not wearing a Hijab and both of them have the same characteristic, same beauty, same mentality. Which one would you pick?


Others can answer this one too.

 

[Fred]

By the parents I suppose. I can say that 90% of Arab women are forced by their parents/relative and society.

Big statement your making there. I don't agree, i know of several women who are independant and work and make a living for themselves and choose to wear Hijab.

There are several who never wore it when they were young and chose to wear it later on in their lives too.

 

[Alen]

Btw Fred, if you had to choose between a girl wearing a Hijab and another girl not wearing a Hijab and both of them have the same characteristic, same beauty, same mentality. Which one would you pick?


Others can answer this one too.

Can I pick both?

 

[king Ale]

Can I pick both?

 

[Fred]

Btw Fred, if you had to choose between a girl wearing a Hijab and another girl not wearing a Hijab and both of them have the same characteristic, same beauty, same mentality. Which one would you pick?


Others can answer this one too.

Ideally, if they had the same characteristics, i'd definitely go for the one wearing Hijab.

 

[Azzurri7]

Big statement your making there. I don't agree, i know of several women who are independant and work and make a living for themselves and choose to wear Hijab.

There are several who never wore it when they were young and chose to wear it later on in their lives too.

I don't think there are too many of them.

And I also think that there are several women forced to wear Hijab but publicly they pretend that they chose this and that they're satisfied.

 

[Azzurri7]

Ideally, if they had the same characteristics, i'd definitely go for the one wearing Hijab.

Why?

 

[Zé Tahir]

Hey we're all in a virtual burqa on these forums...does that bother anyone? Matter of fact the only time anyone's attitude has changed towards someone on here is when they find out someone is a girl..."you're a girl?? Post a pic, post a pic!" You start seeing a lot of :eyebrows: smileys and sudden influx of flirtation takes over the forums.

 

[Alen]

And I also think that there are several women forced to wear Hijab but publicly they pretend that they chose this and that they're satisfied.

I said the same once and I was, perhaps rightfully, attacked by Fred and Ze for talking out of my ass.
I indeed couldn't prove something like that.

But you did live in a Muslim society and I guess that what you say is more than just an opinion, right?

 

[Ford Prefect]

Ideally, if they had the same characteristics, i'd definitely go for the one wearing Hijab.

why?

 

[Eddy]

Ideally, if they had the same characteristics, i'd definitely go for the one wearing Hijab.

Why ?

 

[Azzurri7]

Hey we're all in a virtual burqa on these forums...does that bother anyone?

What's with this attitude?

I said the same once and I was, perhaps rightfully, attacked by Fred and Ze for talking out of my ass.
I indeed couldn't prove something like that.

But you did live in a Muslim society and I guess that what you say is more than just an opinion, right?

That and I had too many Muslim friends abroad, Romania and some other countries.

 

[Hist]

That and I had too many Muslim friends abroad, Romania and some other countries.

That too.
Its a growing trend now in Egypt for girls to wear open clothes under the covered ones. They stop in the nearest place where there is a bathroom and they take the veil and closed clothes off. They put them on again before they go home.

The cases i've seen where mostly of women working at cafe's and clothes stores. Their areas of residence and families wouldnt be happy about it so they just have to pretend in front of them.

I also see cases of girls wearing veils out of choice. My cousin wore it when she was 14 without her crazy father forcing it on her. I dont think he'd be happy if she took it off though.

Its frowned upon to take off the veil if you used to wear one. My mom did that and my father went nuts over it a long time ago. She passed away a couple of years later so i dunno whether it would still bother him or not if she was alive.

 

[Zé Tahir]

What's with this attitude?

What's with what attitude?

 

[Fred]

To answer all the why questions.

First off, what i said does not mean i will necessarily go for a girl that wears Hijab, but if two girls are the exact same and one wears a hijab and the other doesn't, i would choose the one wearing a Hijab. Simply because the former is more compatible with my ideals.

Also if i did marry a woman that doesn't wear a Hijab, i would still try to convince her to wear one. Of course i would want her to be convinced and not wear it just to please me, as that would not serve any purpose imo.

 

[Zé Tahir]

Shut up Fred. You backward barbarian, oppressor of women, hoarder of oil.


ps: and camels.

 

[Ahmed]

and dates.