Abortion, good or bad? (15 Viewers)

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Chxta

Chxta

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Nov 1, 2004
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    That's the spirit...


















    So lemme see the "Crucify him" brigade (read Zlatan) come after elayyan... :pissed:
     

    Dominic

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    Jan 30, 2004
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    Are you that petty chxta?

    Firsty, you are surprised this turned into a debate, while you started this topic and discussion.

    Secondly you think your opinion is a fact.

    Thirdly, you never give arguments and you tend to ignore the arguments against your 'opinion'.

    And finally you contradict yourself, you blame Zlatan for attacking you and not talking about the discussion. While now you provoke Zlatan, buy calling him the 'Crucify him' brigade.

    Well by all means, I hope you are crucified.
     

    Acies

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    Jun 23, 2005
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    Gray, to make things clear:

    I never assumed you were catholic in the first place. I just said that your point of view was pretty similar to what every catholic out there says. And yes, I do believe my point of view is more independent. Not that your opinion can't be well supported, but since I'm an atheïst, I do have to think more about those ethical questions. I can't just deny them and say I value every life like you do.
     

    Acies

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    Jun 23, 2005
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    Chxta, if I read that post of yours in which you state you killed a guy, it doesn't sound like there are circumstances that makes things better. Basically you say: I killed a guy, but I got away with it because he was drunk. Oh wait a minute, you didn't even say he was drunk.

    And now you're telling me you're against abortion? Because abortion is murder? The same guy that seems pretty lightheaded about his crime, is telling me abortion is wrong?
     

    baggio

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    Jun 3, 2003
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    ++ [ originally posted by Nicole ] ++
    What would you say then about the guy? Who usually in teenage pregnacies leaves the mum of her own, so the woman has to bear the consequences but not the guy?
    Yea it really does suck. Especially for the poor, innocent, very adorable child.
     
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    Chxta

    Chxta

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    ++ [ originally posted by Dominic ] ++
    Are you that petty chxta?

    Firsty, you are surprised this turned into a debate, while you started this topic and discussion.

    Secondly you think your opinion is a fact.

    Thirdly, you never give arguments and you tend to ignore the arguments against your 'opinion'.

    And finally you contradict yourself, you blame Zlatan for attacking you and not talking about the discussion. While now you provoke Zlatan, buy calling him the 'Crucify him' brigade.

    Well by all means, I hope you are crucified.
    Am I that petty? I am not the person who has at every turn for the last 5 months reminded someone of something that he did a decade ago.

    Secondly, I don't think my opinion is a fact. I am a highly opinoated person doesn't mean that I force my opinions on others.

    Is that so? Define not giving arguments...

    I can and will provoke Zlatan if I want to because he has shown little restraint in this affair.
     
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    Chxta

    Chxta

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    ++ [ originally posted by Acies ] ++
    Chxta, if I read that post of yours in which you state you killed a guy, it doesn't sound like there are circumstances that makes things better. Basically you say: I killed a guy, but I got away with it because he was drunk. Oh wait a minute, you didn't even say he was drunk.

    And now you're telling me you're against abortion? Because abortion is murder? The same guy that seems pretty lightheaded about his crime, is telling me abortion is wrong?
    Try and read all my posts concerning that topic and you will find that I have been and still am sorry for that incident. It happened 10 freaking years ago, and the people who were involved have all gotten over it. Question: Had I not mentioned it here would any one of you have known? No.

    Now I am 10 years older, legally responsible for my actions, a lot more mature, sorry that I did that. IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT I HAVE LOST THE RIGHT TO EXPRESS AN OPINION. It is a real put off when a faceless stranger whom I met on an internet forum keeps mentioning that incident from my past in nearly every thread that I participate in and express a strong opinion on an issue, AND ZLATAN IS GUILTY OF THAT.

    If it bothers him so much that I did something at age 15 and didn't go to prison for it, then let him come and shoot me. My address is 568 Durban Street, Wuse II, Abuja, Nigeria. I am not running away. But do not point fingers at me anymore for something that you don't know any detail about.

    Dominic says I am petty. Maybe I am, but the truth is this: I have ignored Zlatan on that issue since the 2nd of March. That is bollocks. I have had enough of his shit.

    Acies, I'll draw an analogy for you here. Have you watched the movie Wisdom? The young man had a misdemeanour in his earlier life and was sent to jail. Because of that employers refused to touch him, so he had to resort to a life of crime. That is what someone like Zlatan would want for someone like me. And that is crap.
     

    mikhail

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    Jan 24, 2003
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    ++ [ originally posted by Nicole ] ++
    That is taking it over the top, I really doubt that has ever happened, it would be more likely the baby would be put up for adoption.
    I don't think you get the point there - yes, the question asked you to judge a highly improbably circumstance, but the real point was that "It's never breathed" is a simplistic definition of life, and therefore not sufficient here.

    You didnt understand what I meant, I meant it couldnt survive without the mum during pregnancy, as for your example yes because social services would probably take the child in.
    Again, I think you misunderstand Gray's point Nicole. Dependancy isn't a charactoristic of the foetus alone. A newborn will die if it isn't nourished by someone. That doesn't make its right to life (or indeed its identity as a human being) any less valid. Likewise, Gray, like me, argues that just because a life is dependant, it does not mean that it cannot be a seperate identity.

    As for what you said, the baby is her child. her responsiblity, her decision to make
    In many respects, true. We do not give a mother the right to decide if her child should die however and if you accept that an unborn child has the same rights as a (for lack of a better term!) born one (which is the real point of contention here), then a mother doesn't have the right to determine that an unborn child is to die either.

    , i find it a bit unfair that someone who has a abortion made like made out to be monsters, no they are.
    I very much agree. Often, these women are afraid. You have to make allowances for that. Neither can I condemn someone who has done something which is neither illegal nor, in their mind at least, unethical.

    What is wrong with someone wanting to live there own life before they have children?
    Nothing at all. The issue is more clearly put however, with "What is wrong with someone aborting a child because they don't want a dependant?" The answer depends on the ethics of abortion - again, the issue is under debate here.

    By then it can make them a better mother, instead of just being a teenage mum who cant cope, **** her head up as well as the babies'.
    I've always maintained that the right solution here is adoption. A child shouldn't die because its mother can't cope with it.
     

    mikhail

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    Jan 24, 2003
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    ++ [ originally posted by Nicole ] ++
    ****ing hell, this is getting old fast, someone lock this thread before someone gets banned
    It hasn't gotten that bad yet! I'd rather keep a good debate open than close it because the issue is sensitive. Let's make this a caution though: please watch what you say - respect other people's position.
     

    Acies

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    Jun 23, 2005
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    ++ [ originally posted by chxta ] ++


    Try and read all my posts concerning that topic and you will find that I have been and still am sorry for that incident. It happened 10 freaking years ago, and the people who were involved have all gotten over it. Question: Had I not mentioned it here would any one of you have known? No.

    Now I am 10 years older, legally responsible for my actions, a lot more mature, sorry that I did that. IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT I HAVE LOST THE RIGHT TO EXPRESS AN OPINION. It is a real put off when a faceless stranger whom I met on an internet forum keeps mentioning that incident from my past in nearly every thread that I participate in and express a strong opinion on an issue, AND ZLATAN IS GUILTY OF THAT.

    If it bothers him so much that I did something at age 15 and didn't go to prison for it, then let him come and shoot me. My address is 568 Durban Street, Wuse II, Abuja, Nigeria. I am not running away. But do not point fingers at me anymore for something that you don't know any detail about.

    Dominic says I am petty. Maybe I am, but the truth is this: I have ignored Zlatan on that issue since the 2nd of March. That is bollocks. I have had enough of his shit.

    Acies, I'll draw an analogy for you here. Have you watched the movie Wisdom? The young man had a misdemeanour in his earlier life and was sent to jail. Because of that employers refused to touch him, so he had to resort to a life of crime. That is what someone like Zlatan would want for someone like me. And that is crap.
    I know we should respect everyone's opinion and all, but you seem to have double standards here, and in general I don't listen to people with double standards.

    So you killed a guy, without any consequences, but a woman that has sex should agree with what might come along with it? And then you even label it murder. What you did looks more like murder to me than abortion does.
     

    Acies

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    Jun 23, 2005
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    Is that latin sentence 100% correct, mikhail? What does capul mean? Don't you mean caput? Because I think it says: "I've got a catapult. Unless you give me all the money I'll throw a giant rock at your head."
     

    mikhail

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    Jan 24, 2003
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    ++ [ originally posted by Acies ] ++
    So you killed a guy, without any consequences, but a woman that has sex should agree with what might come along with it? And then you even label it murder. What you did looks more like murder to me than abortion does.
    They both sound like murder to me. However, that's off-topic. If you people would like to debate this elsewhere (PM or another thread), you're free to do so. However, as it's already a pretty touchy subject, I'll just remind you all that a mud-slinging contest will bring down the Wrath of Mod.
     

    Dragon

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    Apr 24, 2003
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    ++ [ originally posted by Acies ] ++


    I know we should respect everyone's opinion and all, but you seem to have double standards here, and in general I don't listen to people with double standards.

    So you killed a guy, without any consequences, but a woman that has sex should agree with what might come along with it? And then you even label it murder. What you did looks more like murder to me than abortion does.
    Maybe he regrets what he did and realizes that murder is wrong ?

    better late than never
     

    Acies

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    Jun 23, 2005
    120
    ++ [ originally posted by mikhail ] ++

    They both sound like murder to me. However, that's off-topic. If you people would like to debate this elsewhere (PM or another thread), you're free to do so. However, as it's already a pretty touchy subject, I'll just remind you all that a mud-slinging contest will bring down the Wrath of Mod.

    It's not exactly mud slinging here. He does use double standards, and that's all I have to say about him.
     

    Slagathor

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    Jul 25, 2001
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    I'm not pro-abortion, but I am pro-choice. Like a Belgian writer [Geert van Istendael] once said:

    "The way abortion is being handled in some countries right now such as The Netherlands is done in a well-thought, left-liberal way. You may not support abortion, but you simply cannot be against those laws."
     

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