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Bisco

Bisco

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Nov 21, 2005
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JCK said:
Sadomin, this is really sad and it is good that you were able to calm him and leave. Nevertheless you should not sleep on the incident and feel yourself lucky that he chose to talk to you about it. When such a person gets to talk to someone about his personal problems it means that he is ready to seek help and this is good. You should in no way call anyone behind his back (on first attempt).

My suggestion is as follows, you being the concerned person can meet up with him with the presence of another person (without the other person knowing) but only because you need someone. Meeting him alone is not recommended especially if you are to meet him to tell him that you are concerned about him and that he needs help. The Swedish army have these centers that help such kinds of problems and this is where he probably should be going, but you have convince him that he seeked help with you but specialists can even help him more. You can talk him over that these people will never treat him as a crazy or dangerous person, he will be treated as a patient and it is good for him (don't mention that he is danger to others).

If this fails, which I hope it doesn't, then you should call someone who can guide on where to seek help. You can always make an anonymous call and brief the situation and they will tell you who to call and what to do.

What I really hope is that you can talk him over and not rely on the second option.

Good luck.
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thats exactly what i would do if i was in the same situation to be honest.
 

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Geof

Geof

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May 14, 2004
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I'd say try and talk with him when he's sober.

His reaction is pretty normal, I guess. Sad but normal. He's still in the army now? Is he still in the army now? I guess they have a sort of follow up program for soldiers coming back from there, no?

Anyway, professional help is what he needs I guess, but I wouldn't "report" him or anything, that would make his feeling of being ununderstood even worse. Maybe you can talk to a psychologist to ask for advice without mentioning his name?
 
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Sadomin

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Apr 5, 2005
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    Thank you for some excellent advice (especially you, Jack). I've made up my mind and I will return tomorrow and tell you how it went.
     
    V

    V

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    Jun 8, 2005
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    So...what did you do in the end, Sadomin?

    I reckon you didn't tell him; pusi kurac and go fvck yourself. :D
     
    .zero

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    Aug 8, 2006
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    Andy said:
    Shut up, Nagasaki man.
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    :lol:

    -_-

    Ah|M|eD said:
    he is obviously suffering from PTSD...he needs counseling...try to contact community services or something I am sure they will have some1 to talk to him
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    ya there is nothing that you can really do yourself but its not a bad idea to notify some kind of group that deals with these kinds of situations. the worst thing you could do is tell him that he has a problem.
     
    Azzurri7

    Azzurri7

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    Dec 16, 2003
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    Here's what has happened so far....

    Snoop called the man a pussy, Sadomin couldn't sleep all night when he read that, he could never accept the fact that he was called a pussy, he wanted to prove Snoop wrong and everyone, he knocked the mans door next day.....and god knows what happened next.

    But It's been a while since he last posted here I believe.
     
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