What If.....? (2 Viewers)

Tifoso

Sempre e solo Juve
Aug 12, 2005
5,162
++ [ originally posted by Lilianna ] ++


well,this sounds great in theory to me,but this doesn't work for me.
i KNOW i can't like EVERYONE,and of caurse i do not expect EVERYONE to like me in return.
Try it for 2 weeks. Really. Be nice to everyone. I particularly go out of my way to be nice to people in what we call the service industries: tellers, waitresses, etc.

The happiest/saddest thing I've ever seen while being nice to someone, is what I call the looking over the shoulder syndrome.

The person you are being nice to seems to (and in some cases actually does) look over their shoulder....they just can't believe you're being nice to them.

Again. Try it for just 2 weeks. Please. :)
 

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Lilianna

Senior Member
Apr 3, 2003
15,969
++ [ originally posted by Tifoso Lou ] ++


Try it for 2 weeks. Really. Be nice to everyone. I particularly go out of my way to be nice to people in what we call the service industries: tellers, waitresses, etc.

The happiest/saddest thing I've ever seen while being nice to someone, is what I call the looking over the shoulder syndrome.

The person you are being nice to seems to (and in some cases actually does) look over their shoulder....they just can't believe you're being nice to them.

Again. Try it for just 2 weeks. Please. :)
actually i HAVE to do this everyday.
i am working in a hotel and i HAVE to be nice to everyone.
but it is very difficult for me to smile to every idiot who comes.

today for example,i met a total idiot.
he was so arrogant to me,i was furious....

how can you like SUCH an idiot?
i can't.
 

Tifoso

Sempre e solo Juve
Aug 12, 2005
5,162
++ [ originally posted by Lilianna ] ++


actually i HAVE to do this everyday.
i am working in a hotel and i HAVE to be nice to everyone.
but it is very difficult for me to smile to every idiot who comes.

today for example,i met a total idiot.
he was so arrogant to me,i was furious....

how can you like SUCH an idiot?
i can't.
True.

Let's start easy then: be extra nice to people here, to strangers, to people who are serving you, and to your family. For 2 weeks. :)
 

Lilianna

Senior Member
Apr 3, 2003
15,969
++ [ originally posted by Tifoso Lou ] ++


True.

Let's start easy then: be extra nice to people here, to strangers, to people who are serving you, and to your family. For 2 weeks. :)
to everyone else,ok.

but be nice to ALL of them HERE???????

i told ya,99% of the ppl here HATE me and i know that.
i am a human being,i am not a saint amico mio!
 

Tifoso

Sempre e solo Juve
Aug 12, 2005
5,162
++ [ originally posted by Lilianna ] ++


to everyone else,ok.

but be nice to ALL of them HERE???????

i told ya,99% of the ppl here HATE me and i know that.
i am a human being,i am not a saint amico mio!

Nah, I think you are a very nice person. I don't know anyone here that hates you :)

2 weeks. :)
 

Lilianna

Senior Member
Apr 3, 2003
15,969
++ [ originally posted by Tifoso Lou ] ++



Nah, I think you are a very nice person. I don't know anyone here that hates you :)

2 weeks. :)
you want the list?

oh,it's way too long....

just check the members list :D
thanx anyway and if that makes you happier,i'll try it ;)
 

Tifoso

Sempre e solo Juve
Aug 12, 2005
5,162
++ [ originally posted by Lilianna ] ++
why?
because you are so good,and you there are not many good pppl left out there anymore amico mio.
Nah. I'd say 95% of the people in the world are good (including you :) ).
 

Lilianna

Senior Member
Apr 3, 2003
15,969
++ [ originally posted by Tifoso Lou ] ++


Nah. I'd say 95% of the people in the world are good (including you :) ).
i wish it was like that,but unfortunatelly i am not good either...

i am a bitch and i know it.
i wish i was a better person,but wtf,i may become
 

Tifoso

Sempre e solo Juve
Aug 12, 2005
5,162
++ [ originally posted by Lilianna ] ++


no no...wrong example....(lets stay out of politics)

ancelotti,mourinho,ronaldo and the company are good too...????
Again..it's what you choose to look for. I don't think the percentage among professional athletes is all that different...it's just that their temptations are greater.

Having said that....if I were given the choice to spend a week at Berlusconi's house (I use him only as an example), or at the house of an operaio (sp?) who could afford to have me stay at his home, I'd pick the operaio every time.
 

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