Wow... look at the number of generalizations there!
Unless you've done a lot of research on potheads, I'm gonna ignore what you said about normally functioning potheads. I, of all people, know that's not the case cos I am a living example. I smoked pot almost everyday for 6 months last year and still do it every weekend now. Yet I ended up getting a job, kept it for more than 3 months, and I'm much happier than I was before due to serious efforts I put in to improving myself. All this stuff that you're saying about potheads is either stuff that you just made up to support your bad experience of smoking weed, or like someone else said, that's the image you got from the potheads that
you've met. But please, don't make generalizations based on your limited exposure to them.
What irritates me the most is how you were so quick to judge JuveJay after merely finding out that he smoked pot. This was before you even tried to find out how much and how often he smokes. That's just BS, and I'm calling you out on it.
Also, if you really think it's OK to pursue a guy who's already in a relationship, that shows your absolute disregard for the feelings of the girl he's with. You don't care about how she's gonna feel if the dude left her for you. All you care about is what you get out of it, and no one else. Don't you think
that is immoral? Your actions will affect someone negatively, yet you don't think it's immoral. Go figure!