Oh, you were talking about yourself lol. I don't know why I do that, I really think I'm an idiot. I see a girl that I like, she's great (well not really, they are mostly idiots when I look objectively at the situation), they are usually in a relationship too. Then I start baiting her and I usually get them basically hanging on my neck, I just need to move the final step and break up that relationship and get her. But no, when I sense that she wants it I just walk away like an idiot.
I always hated to see myself in that position. I tried hard to avoid such thing. What I did was woke up and get that shit done first thing in the morning and rape my brain if I have to. I hate it most of the time, but it's rewarding because when you finish you feel like a boss and you have a whole day/week ahead of you when you can relax and do nothing.