Its the same country (and its 45 mins by plane

But I never take domestic flights). I know too many ppl with long distance relationships like that, its dumb and waste of time IMO, unless you been together to the point of being really committed and planning to live together or such soon enough (which if I recall is your case, getting hitched?). A friend of mine's boyfriend lives in the US, 2.5 years, and they maybe seen eachother like 3-4 times, I would ended it ages ago.