Apr 15, 2006
56,640
You have feelings for a girl who's already seeing a friend of yours? This scenario is Exactly what my friend was facing a few months ago. I told him to keep this shit to himself, as nothing good will come of it if he tells her. But the fool told her he had feelings for her, and a few weeks later, she stopped hanging out with him and told him it's not appropriate for them to talk anymore.

So take these feelings and put them in a box for a time when she's single.
 

ZoSo

Senior Member
Jul 11, 2011
41,656
You have feelings for a girl who's already seeing a friend of yours? This scenario is Exactly what my friend was facing a few months ago. I told him to keep this shit to himself, as nothing good will come of it if he tells her. But the fool told her he had feelings for her, and a few weeks later, she stopped hanging out with him and told him it's not appropriate for them to talk anymore.

So take these feelings and put them in a box for a time when she's single.
:agree:

And rare is the instance where the girl will still want to be friends after...
 

The Curr

Senior Member
Feb 3, 2007
33,705
The absolute last thing I want to do is not even be friends with her. To be honest, I kind of know it'd never last between us at the moment because I've seen how she treats other guys. It's just that I feel if I never tell her how I feel I'll regret it forever.
 

Nzoric

Grazie Mirko
Jan 16, 2011
37,877
The absolute last thing I want to do is not even be friends with her. To be honest, I kind of know it'd never last between us at the moment because I've seen how she treats other guys. It's just that I feel if I never tell her how I feel I'll regret it forever.
Do you like that friend of yours? Unless it's a friendship you really treasure you should go for it with the girl. I know it's not a kosher advice, but there it went :D
 

Trezegol17

Senior Member
Nov 1, 2006
9,131
The absolute last thing I want to do is not even be friends with her. To be honest, I kind of know it'd never last between us at the moment because I've seen how she treats other guys. It's just that I feel if I never tell her how I feel I'll regret it forever.
So let me get this straight, you don't even want to be friends with her. Is she part of a friendgroup you guys have? If not just ignore her bro, Your friend is more important to have then a girl who you don't even wanna be friends with. you will get feelings for other girls soon enough but please promise me you never develop feelings over the internet like some people :D
 

The Curr

Senior Member
Feb 3, 2007
33,705
So let me get this straight, you don't even want to be friends with her. Is she part of a friendgroup you guys have? If not just ignore her bro, Your friend is more important to have then a girl who you don't even wanna be friends with. you will get feelings for other girls soon enough but please promise me you never develop feelings over the internet like some people :D
No, you misunderstood me. At the very least, I want to be good friends with this girl. I don't want to screw that up.

To be honest, since I've gotten to know her, I haven't even been looking at other girls in the same way. I mean, I've had sex with other girls but it's meant absolutely nothing. Girls in general just remind me of her.

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Also, it's 11 AM and I've been up all night. I should probably go to bed soon.
 
Apr 15, 2006
56,640
No, you misunderstood me. At the very least, I want to be good friends with this girl. I don't want to screw that up.

To be honest, since I've gotten to know her, I haven't even been looking at other girls in the same way. I mean, I've had sex with other girls but it's meant absolutely nothing. Girls in general just remind me of her.

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Also, it's 11 AM and I've been up all night. I should probably go to bed soon.
If her boyfriend means nothing to you, then it's worth the risk. If he does, then don't even think about it.
 

ZoSo

Senior Member
Jul 11, 2011
41,656
No, you misunderstood me. At the very least, I want to be good friends with this girl. I don't want to screw that up.

To be honest, since I've gotten to know her, I haven't even been looking at other girls in the same way. I mean, I've had sex with other girls but it's meant absolutely nothing. Girls in general just remind me of her.

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Also, it's 11 AM and I've been up all night. I should probably go to bed soon.
Not telling her you love her or something along the lines of that is not something you will regret. You'll get over her and it won't be anything.
 

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