Why women think like this? Why should I do that? That's what she should do not me. People go to sperm banks no? they donate sperms, what is the different here in my case? I would consider it a donation
It's a hard decision indeed, a big fucked up decision. But she should feel more remorse than me. If she decided to have the kid alone by her own, and hide that from me, then it's her responsibility isn't it?
I don't think so. It is still the responsibility of both of you because you decided to sleep with her for you own needs and the same goes for her, eventhough she was a manipulative by getting you to impregnate her but you need to be smart by not trusting her and allowing such thing to occur. So it's you fault for being naive
Why women think like this? Why should I do that? That's what she should do not me. People go to sperm banks no? they donate sperms, what is the different here in my case? I would consider it a donation
I don't think so. It is still the responsibility of both of you because you decided to sleep with her for you own needs and the same goes for her, eventhough she was a manipulative by getting you to impregnate her but you need to be smart by not trusting her and allowing such thing to occur. So it's you fault for being naive
Why women think like this? Why should I do that? That's what she should do not me. People go to sperm banks no? they donate sperms, what is the different here in my case? I would consider it a donation
I don't think so. It is still the responsibility of both of you because you decided to sleep with her for you own needs and the same goes for her, eventhough she was a manipulative by getting you to impregnate her but you need to be smart by not trusting her and allowing such thing to occur. So it's you fault for being naive
My answer is very simple! I don't care, I didn't decide to have the kid, so I won't raise it or have the responsibility. It's always men are wrong aren't they Fabi?
My answer is very simple! I don't care, I didn't decide to have the kid, so I won't raise it or have the responsibility. It's always men are wrong aren't they Fabi?
That is another sorry excuse. It's still your problem for not making sure you bought a good quality condom and only thought in a selfish way to satisfy you own needs and once you are done you just don't want to care any more. It was your sperm then it's your baby and your respnsibility. Otherwise just keep your deck for your hand
Well she is looking from that angle, feminist one.
If a woman hides her pregnancy from the father of the child, then she should take the responsibility all by her self. I don't care what feminists or holly books say.
My answer is very simple! I don't care, I didn't decide to have the kid, so I won't raise it or have the responsibility. It's always men are wrong aren't they Fabi?
No, but if you were irresponsible enough to jump into bed with a girl you weren't sure was on the pill and you didn't use a condom you gotta take responsibility for YOUR child, this kid isn't just hers, it's yours too
That is another sorry excuse. It's still your problem for not making sure you bought a good quality condom and only thought in a selfish way to satisfy you own needs and once you are done you just don't want to care any more. It was your sperm then it's your baby and your respnsibility. Otherwise just keep your deck for your hand
That is another sorry excuse. It's still your problem for not making sure you bought a good quality condom and only thought in a selfish way to satisfy you own needs and once you are done you just don't want to care any more. It was your sperm then it's your baby and your respnsibility. Otherwise just keep your deck for your hand
No, but if you were irresponsible enough to jump into bed with a girl you weren't sure was on the pill and you didn't use a condom you gotta take responsibility for YOUR child, this kid isn't just hers, it's yours too
Again, I didn't plan to have the kid, didn't ask the woman to have it, so it's not my responsibility.. this argument can go forever btw, you need to listen and look from people's view to understand them, or these conversations becomes just like religions one "I am wrong you are right"..
Then I would have to be responsible for our new child, and shame on me for not being on another form of birth control... And you know something I'm not being feminist but it's always the girl who has it the worst in this situation; she's the one who gets pregnant, has to get fat and has to give birth to the kid!! Even if she was gonna give it on adoption she still has to carry it for 9 months! It's easy for you to say you won't assume your responsibilities because after you have sex with a girl and knock her up you don't have to do anything else!
I have no problem with you man. it's just we don't agree on this subject and I totally understand.
Sperm donating is a different thing. Which I don't agree with the whole concept because I think it's f=ed up, but in that case the sperm was donated which means that women made a choice to take it and you made a choice to give it. when you sleep around a little accident happen then there was no choice made, the only choice was made is to have sex and enjoy yourself.