So Luca
This is what happened to me. I met this chick. Actually I met her over a year ago, but we both had our own things going on, so nothing happened. I hadn't seen her until sometime earlier this year and then I remembered how much I had liked her. We started talking a bit, but couldn't hang out much or anything becuase she had exams and we could only talk on the phone once in a while. So I chatted with her online and texted her mostly for two months waiting for her exams to finish. When it eventually did, we got to talk a lot and we even went out twice. It was plain to see how much I liked her, and I knew she liked me too.
All of a sudden, she stopped taking my calls and responding to texts. I was like wtf, maybe she's just playing those hard to get games and I put up with it a while. After a week and a half or so, I started asking her to please talk to me. i thought something must be wrong, becuase she was such a nice girl that she wouldn't stop talking to me just like that. So I was at a a party and was sending her these drunk messages and I basically said that if she didn't like me then stop fucking around and tell me at let me go my way. the bitch didn't even respond to that.
I gave up on her because I usually have too much pride that I don't ever run after girls, let alone beg for them like that. Just when i gave up, she started talking to me online, asking me why I was tripping like that. She said that she was away for the week and she had a friend from abroad staying with (which was true) and she told me she would be very busy that week (I don't remember that). She was basically telling me I was overrreacting and I was supposed to understand how she couldn't find one minute in a week to at least explain that to me.
I knew she was fucking around but I liked her so much that I let it go and made her feel like she did nothing wrong. We started back talking again, although not as good as before. And I told her I wanted to see her again, and she was giving me BS stories. I texted hre on the weekend telling her to come to a party I was going... no reply, I wasn't surpised. That night, I'm out in the line and she walks past and tells me hi from a distance. then I see her inside and I go tell her hi and asked her what that was about... more BS. She ignores me whole night and I give up on her again.
The next day, same shit. She tells me that I was the one ignoring her, and she didn't have time to reply to my text and more BS. She was going away that week, but I decided I was not going out of my to talk to her again becuase she was really fucking with me. However, I text her the day before she left to say good luck and be safe, she texts back, "Who is this?" Now it was a new phone number, but she should've had it when I texted her on the weekend. I tell her it's me in an ironic manner. She never texted back. She's still away and I wouldn't be surprised if she comes and tells me all about her lovely trip to England. I'' ry my best to fuck her up and see how muh she can take... and after if it works out, then cool
Moral of the story- if they're fucking with and are playing games beyong being hard to get, don't chase after them, because I felt the way about her that you do about yours, I'm sure And I kept thinking how hard it would be to find someone you're gonna like like that again. She had me in a frigged up mood for days, but eventually you're like "fuck it, she's a psycho bitch." And you know what, I'm over it enough. Just go and do what you normally do, let her know you don't need her. If she comes to you, test her and don't let her push you around. And Burke's idea was good, let her see you having a good time with other girls, not necessarily doing anything, just so she would know that she's not the only one.
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cheers man, I guess it's just gonna be one of those life experience lessons.
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