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Tickle Me
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Oct 11, 2005
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It's not that I don't fit in. It's just different when I'm around my culture and speaking my language and having the same morals ,ideals etc etc with people who are not Italian or of Italian decent it's different that's all. Not in a bad way just different set of beliefs etc
Are you sure you don't mean behavior? Morals and beliefs are finite, are they not?

Anyway, this is normal.

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That's all fine but I was talking about community morals but I see what you mean
By community morals I hope you're not meaning a "gang bang".:klin:

On a serious note, what do you mean by that?
 

Nzoric

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Jan 16, 2011
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Nothing wrong with any of that. People tend to adapt to the groups they interact within. You just have to realize that these different versions of yourself are still you even though you may alter your behavior from one setting to the next. This isn't a crisis, it's standard. Just more polarized because you happen to hold nostalgiac reverence for the place you "come from".



that make sense, except i don't understand where that nostalgic reverence comes from considering I never really gave it a thought until before my 19th birthday or so. it's not that i disagree with your post but that angle didn't really give me any peace of mind either, sadly. It still feels like a crisis :D


It's actually pretty decent. Probably somewhere in my car.
I like it, not as good as Tool but definitely enjoyable. I'm still trying to get a hold of a bottle of his wine

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Are you sure you don't mean behavior? Morals and beliefs are finite, are they not?
what do you mean with "are finite"?
 

ALC

Ohaulick
Oct 28, 2010
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Are you sure you don't mean behavior? Morals and beliefs are finite, are they not?

Anyway, this is normal.

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By community morals I hope you're not meaning a "gang bang".:klin:

On a serious note, what do you mean by that?
I think he just means behavior and way people act. Not morals per se.
 

AndreaCristiano

Nato, Vive, e muore Italiano
Jun 9, 2011
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Are you sure you don't mean behavior? Morals and beliefs are finite, are they not?

Anyway, this is normal.

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By community morals I hope you're not meaning a "gang bang".:klin:

On a serious note, what do you mean by that?
Well for instance discipline of children, family life and workings, etc
 

ALC

Ohaulick
Oct 28, 2010
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this shiptar can probably relate to what i'm talking about :D
*Shqiptar. And I moved when I was 13 so I get what you mean. But it really depends on who you hang with. In HS, that difference was more prevalent cuz you'd hang out with everyone and whatnot. But now, when you pick your friends, you pick ones you fit with more.

Still, going back there is always awesome and feels like nothing else.
 

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Tickle Me
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that make sense, except i don't understand where that nostalgic reverence comes from considering I never really gave it a thought until before my 19th birthday or so. it's not that i disagree with your post but that angle didn't really give me any peace of mind either, sadly. It still feels like a crisis :D




I like it, not as good as Tool but definitely enjoyable. I'm still trying to get a hold of a bottle of his wine
1) I don't see how this is a crisis. People are supposed to be complex. The nostalgiac reverence comes from you having visited your homeland and wanting to help make it better. You don't have to pick between being Serb or Danish. Be whichever you like, or be both, or neither. Do something or don't do anything. It doesn't make you a bad person no matter what you choose.

2) It's difficult to find unless you're willing to order a case.
 

AndreaCristiano

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Jun 9, 2011
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*Shqiptar. And I moved when I was 13 so I get what you mean. But it really depends on who you hang with. In HS, that difference was more prevalent cuz you'd hang out with everyone and whatnot. But now, when you pick your friends, you pick ones you fit with more.

Still, going back there is always awesome and feels like nothing else.
Exactly hit the nail on the head brother!
 

Nzoric

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Jan 16, 2011
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*Shqiptar. And I moved when I was 13 so I get what you mean. But it really depends on who you hang with. In HS, that difference was more prevalent cuz you'd hang out with everyone and whatnot. But now, when you pick your friends, you pick ones you fit with more.

Still, going back there is always awesome and feels like nothing else.
perhaps its Shqiptar in your pagan language, but in my language you're just a Shiptar :D

And I get your point :tup:

1) I don't see how this is a crisis. People are supposed to be complex. The nostalgiac reverence comes from you having visited your homeland and wanting to help make it better. You don't have to pick between being Serb or Danish. Be whichever you like, or be both, or neither. Do something or don't do anything. It doesn't make you a bad person no matter what you choose.

2) It's difficult to find unless you're willing to order a case.
That's too easy, for now. But thanks for the input, I'll probably have to think this through for a few more months. Besides, I like sitting with a glass of wine and wallow in my own thoughts from time to time :D

He's too good a musician for me to trust him to be a good enough wine maker to warrant me buying an entire case of his wine :D
 

AndreaCristiano

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Oh yeah, cultural differences. I could see that. Probably makes it easier to adapt to the cultural differences of the country you are visiting.
Yea. For example my fiancé and I click so well because besides the obvious attraction of look and character we come from right off the boat Italian families and all those cultural ideals are the same, food, family, language, mentality etc etc. So it is with my closest friends outside of my family and hers they are all in that same situation. I have friends of many persuasions beside them but the closeness because of that culture will never be achieved outside of it
 

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Tickle Me
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perhaps its Shqiptar in your pagan language, but in my language you're just a Shiptar :D

And I get your point :tup:



That's too easy, for now. But thanks for the input, I'll probably have to think this through for a few more months. Besides, I like sitting with a glass of wine and wallow in my own thoughts from time to time :D

He's too good a musician for me to trust him to be a good enough wine maker to warrant me buying an entire case of his wine :D
1) Follow the Razor bro, Hakom knows what's up.

2) If you're in the US it's easier to find a distributor. He supposedly gets solid ratings from critics.
 

ALC

Ohaulick
Oct 28, 2010
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Finally bought a new whip yesterday!


Love it!!!
Nice yoo! The new 'stangs are quality. Ford has really stepped their game up. Looks good :tup:

perhaps its Shqiptar in your pagan language, but in my language you're just a Shiptar :D

And I get your point :tup:
You'll get used to it :D But yeah, going back is always a magic time. You said it yourself tho, we go there on vacation and there's no worries whatsoever. Living there all the time would be different. I wouldn't mind it tbh, but I'd have to have some cash or a really good job.
 

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1) I don't see how this is a crisis. People are supposed to be complex. The nostalgiac reverence comes from you having visited your homeland and wanting to help make it better. You don't have to pick between being Serb or Danish. Be whichever you like, or be both, or neither. Do something or don't do anything. It doesn't make you a bad person no matter what you choose.
That's the universal immigrant story, though. And it's extremely popular the world over. Often you can't easily go 'back' either -- you can end up like the Sopranos going back to Sicily thinking they're one of them, when they are clearly considered anything but by the locals.
 

AndreaCristiano

Nato, Vive, e muore Italiano
Jun 9, 2011
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Nice yoo! The new 'stangs are quality. Ford has really stepped their game up. Looks good :tup:



You'll get used to it :D But yeah, going back is always a magic time. You said it yourself tho, we go there on vacation and there's no worries whatsoever. Living there all the time would be different. I wouldn't mind it tbh, but I'd have to have some cash or a really good job.
Hell yes! This is gonna be a fun project :D mwwwuuuhahahahahahaha
 

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