Then I can't help you. I never use in-ears, how can you stand them??
:edit: I just remembered, I've heard good things about Sennheiser CX300 II . They're quite cheap, too. If you really want quality, one of my friends who works with headphones just told you to get Sennheiser IE-8, although they're like 400 bucks in Denmark.
Call me when you want a chat about over ear headphones
