in all honesty,i am just stirring the pot
agreed,i ended my relationship of 4 and a half years because i felt that i no longer wanted to be in aan exclusive relationship,for various reasons.
despite the fact i knew the relationship had no future,i would not have cheated on her,it shows a complete lack of respect. imagine how it would feel for a woman you look into the eyes of and tell her you love her to find out you have been nobbing some bird because....you were bored?
that is a rather shit outlook you have on 90% of the worlds men