Use your picture as an avatar for a week! (1 Viewer)
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++ [ originally posted by Don Bes ] ++
my whole plan is based on that.
my whole plan is based on that.
THE DATE
You're gonna wanna make a good entrance. Be on time and come in style. When dressing for a date; pay attention to detail. Did your shoelace on one shoe break right before you left and you quickly replaced it with one that's slightly differently black: she WILL notice. Sloppy clothing (tardiness too) will lead her to draw the conclusion she's apparently not good enough for a serious effort in personal style and hygene.
A first reaction is important. The moment you see her for the first time of the evening presents a great opportunity for you to get halfway into her pants (bluntly put, have to keep it simple for the horny male brains). Whatever you're doing the minute she walks into your field of vision, interrupt it immediately. Do not continue to casually lean against the doorpost, but quickly straighten yourself out (as if you're nervous she's too good for you, looking like that) and stumble a bit when you give her the compliment on her looks as if you can't find the words.
BE A GENTLEMAN. Open doors, offer her seats and occasionally ask her if she's comfortable (not too often, that's deadly for various reasons).
You must at all times avoid the following topics of discussions: sports (maybe on a later date if the girl is an exception and actually into sports), ex-girlfriends, finances and your feelings about her. Feelings are meant to be showed, not just talked about. That does not mean you should be too freely in touching her, however.
Ask her questions about herself, her dreams and aspirations and express an interest in all her answers.
At the end of the evening, try to avoid showing any insecurity if you feel it. By now you should have already figured out if you should kiss her goodbye and in what style and stick to that plan.
If she were to accept an invitation to come to your apartment (unlikely but it must still be prepared for), the following things should at all times be in order:
1) clean up. Dishes belong in the kitchen (preferably clean), laundry in baskets or wardrobes and shoes are not meant to be left lingering in front of the door. Put porn magazines and things of the sort in the back of a bottom drawer somewhere.
2) leave certain details in sight. You're gonna wanna leave a chair in your bedroom and put a $200 pair of jeans on it, with a Ralph Lauren polo (just an example of a brand) and some Prada shoes by the side. It's a sign that you have good taste and are full of ambition because it will require a good job+income to keep on wearing clothes like that in the future.
3) Show your intellect by leaving study books in sight but hiding sports magazines
4) make up your bed and make sure it's clean. Nobody likes to find tissues by the side of a man's bed
5) your music collection should be balanced and varied. If that requires hiding some cd's because you have too many of one genre, do it.
6) put some photo's in frames scattered through your room. You'll want her to know you have a life.
Well thats some info off the top of my head. Good luck :redface:
