++ [ originally posted by baggio ] ++
Not quite understood what your trying to say? If we have no chance at all, we should just sit back and wait till death comes?
I just don't subscribe to the idea that giving people false hope is better than giving people no additional hope at all.
Christopher Reeve did not stagnate, even when he was left to wallow in self pity for what had happened to him. He took up the cause, he did something about it, and fought till the very end.
Don't get me wrong. Indirectly, he did challenge the medical community to break out of some stunted thinking, which lead to some improvements in care. All that has been great stuff.
But what I don't quite follow is all the hero worship he got -- standing ovations for just showing up someplace. He became a de facto spokesperson about paralysis, almost of no choice of his own, because people wanted him -- even needed him -- to be. It's just a really curious social phenomenon. Not in any negative way at all -- more of an observation. There sort of has been this innate public need to make a hero out of him -- a sort of focal point for even able-bodied people to stave off the dark reaches of their own psyches. It's as if society needs examples to believe that they too can cheat death and overcome obstacles, and so we put people like Christopher Reeves on a pedestal because we need that.
You ever see the movie
Being There with Peter Sellers? There's almost an element of that to it. It becomes less about who the person is and more about what they personally represent to everyone else.
Because of that, Christopher Reeves became less about Christopher Reeves and more about what everyone else needed him to represent to them personally.