Sad news (4 Viewers)

[Chxta]

My fiancee just broke up with me!

 

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[Lawnchair Bes]

oh man. how did it happen ?

 

[Chxta]

I don't know...
She hadn't called me for 2 days, I called today, and she told me that she'll need some time off, that I shouldn't bother calling her, that it's over.

 

[Lawnchair Bes]

just like that ?

 

[Chxta]

Yes. I have no idea what to do. I am supposed to travel tommorrow as per work, and I can't call off the trip. Been trying to call her and she won't pick up the phone.

I didn't cheat on her or anything of the sort... Been trying to wrack my brain as to what could be wrong... nothing!

 

[Espectro]

Im sorry bro...

Maybe the best could be that you call her after you came back from your travel, maybe she will be more calm and you two could talk things...

I know its hard, just take it easy...

 

[Chxta]

I'm off to get drunk.

 

[Lawnchair Bes]

dont do anything stupid

 

[JCK]

Take it easy Nwanze, if you need to talk you know where to find me.

 

[swag]

That sucks, Cheta. Sorry to hear that.

As much as your impulse will be to just do something, my advice from experience is to lay low and try your best to be calm for a while -- as Esteban alludes to. Take the trip and keep your life moving.

There's no guarantee that she's going to change her mind. But if there is a chance that she will, she probably won't change it if you wind up smothering her with trying to "right" supposed "wrongs". Especially if she's giving you signals to back off a bit.

 

[Zlatan]

Shit happens.

 

[Lawnchair Bes]

for a reason

 

[gray]

Damn Cheta, sorry to hear that man.

I hope you'll pull through man, maybe she just needs some time to think 'things' over. Women are like, u know how it is

 

[Zlatan]

++ [ originally posted by Don Bes ] ++
for a reason

You know what they say, what goes around comes around.

 

[Elnur_E65]

When one of the few girls I was really in love with broke up with me I just switched to the night shift and stayed there for a month, practically not talking to anyone.

 

[Azzurri7]

Take it easy Chx, am sure you guys will solve out the problem, try not to be sad, things will improve, believe me.

 

[Daddi]

It's a risk it will be this typical stuff: You call her and ask whats the matter? What did I do wrong? and she responds: Nothing, baby its not you, its me. (the classic stuff) but she has gotten a crush on another guy (this is textbook stuff, really). I donno, it sounds pretty strange, sayints its over just like that. Chxta, I feel you man, wimen can be so strange sometimes...I know... I wish you the best of luck. Hopefully everything will end up getting back to normal again. Sort things out, get married, live a life like a husband and wife and be foerever happy

 

[swag]

++ [ originally posted by Elnur_E65 ] ++
When one of the few girls I was really in love with broke up with me I just switched to the night shift and stayed there for a month, practically not talking to anyone.

You too?!

Yeah, but I wrote a manifesto while I was away at my wilderness compound... :dazed:

 

[Bjerknes]

Sorry to hear that chxta. :down:

 

[baggio]

CHX, that sucks. Better keep yourself busy boy, and take swag's advise, because he's spot on. Id just like to add to that however: just make sure you dont take her back now, even if she changes her mind.

Cheers.