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[Lawnchair Bes]

sorry guys but it just feels like i have to say it to somebody

i finally get a chick to go out with me and she gets sick and he parents threaten to divorce the day before.


anybody got any words to make me feel better ?

also how do i get advantage of this ? i mean how do i become the nice, sweet compationate guy ready to listen :groan:

 

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[Nicole]

I would say be there as a friend of her right now, someone she can talk to, and LISTEN to what she has to say, really listen. Dont try to be a "boyfriend" at a time like this, and she'll never forget it.

 

[Dan]

So hold up,

Her parents are talking about dirvorce, then she becomes ill?

Well, i guess the best would be to ask her very nicely if she wants to talk about anything. If she says no, leave it, but reassure her that she can talk to you about the whole situation anytime if she needs to get if off her chest, and the most important thing to do is make her feel it wont be 'weird' or 'innappropriate'.

Anyway, congrats Bes. You remind me all too much of George from Seinfeld

Btw, is she looking good?

 

[nedved34]

++ [ originally posted by Don Bes ] ++
sorry guys but it just feels like i have to say it to somebody

i finally get a chick to go out with me and she gets sick and he parents threaten to divorce the day before.


anybody got any words to make me feel better ?

also how do i get advantage of this ? i mean how do i become the nice, sweet compationate guy ready to listen :groan:

GO hug her man,and rest will come easily :devil:

 

[Seven]

++ [ originally posted by Nicole ] ++
I would say be there as a friend of her right now, someone she can talk to, and LISTEN to what she has to say, really listen. Dont try to be a "boyfriend" at a time like this, and she'll never forget it.

Do I see another "good friend" coming up ?

 

[Lawnchair Bes]

++ [ originally posted by Dan ] ++
So hold up,

Her parents are talking about dirvorce, then she becomes ill?

Well, i guess the best would be to ask her very nicely if she wants to talk about anything. If she says no, leave it, but reassure her that she can talk to you about the whole situation anytime if she needs to get if off her chest, and the most important thing to do is make her feel it wont be 'weird' or 'innappropriate'.

Anyway, congrats Bes. You remind me all too much of George from Seinfeld

Btw, is she looking good?

she got sick on the same weekend that that happened. and she is perfect, cute and she loves soccer as much as i do. crazy about milan though

 

[Lawnchair Bes]

++ [ originally posted by Nicole ] ++
I would say be there as a friend of her right now, someone she can talk to, and LISTEN to what she has to say, really listen. Dont try to be a "boyfriend" at a time like this, and she'll never forget it.

as bad as this sounds "i got plenty of those"

 

[jaecole]

Ask her to stay at your place to give her parents some time to work things out.

 

[Lawnchair Bes]

++ [ originally posted by jaecole ] ++
Ask her to stay at your place to give her parents some time to work things out.

see now thats a plan. too bad it aint gonna work out.

 

[Martin]

is this post-a-thread-about-a-girl-week or something?

 

[Nicole]

++ [ originally posted by Don Bes ] ++



as bad as this sounds "i got plenty of those"

That does sound bad, too many guys go out to "get a girlfriend", i can only speak for myself but I can pretty much KNOW when someone is like that. Why not try to be her friend? That is the best way in my opinion for something to develop for example a relationship.

 

[Lawnchair Bes]

++ [ originally posted by Martin ] ++
is this post-a-thread-about-a-girl-week or something?

more or less

 

[Dan]

++ [ originally posted by Don Bes ] ++



she got sick on the same weekend that that happened. and she is perfect, cute and she loves soccer as much as i do. crazy about milan though

wow, a gem. It doesnt really help the happiness cause that Milan conceded the title does it?

Just master the art of looking interested when you are not, if the case may be.

 

[Lawnchair Bes]

++ [ originally posted by Nicole ] ++


That does sound bad, too many guys go out to "get a girlfriend", i can only speak for myself but I can pretty much KNOW when someone is like that. Why not try to be her friend? That is the best way in my opinion for something to develop for example a relationship.

:down: i guess thats the only thing left for me to do now

 

[Lawnchair Bes]

++ [ originally posted by Dan ] ++


wow, a gem. It doesnt really help the happiness cause that Milan conceded the title does it?

Just master the art of looking interested when you are not, if the case may be.

i AM interested but the problem with me is that if i become her friend i get stuck as her friend.

about milan, its not like i let that get in the way

 

[Martin]

++ [ originally posted by Don Bes ] ++



more or less

carry on then

 

[Lawnchair Bes]

++ [ originally posted by Martin ] ++


carry on then

since when you started carrying anyway

 

[Nicole]

++ [ originally posted by Don Bes ] ++

:down: i guess thats the only thing left for me to do now

Dont act as if it is the end of the world.

Tell me, if you really like this girl, what would you perfer?

1. She is your girlfriend, you have a great couple of weeks/months, but ultimately it doesnt work out?

or

2. A lifelong friendship that if one day the feeling is mutual then a relationship could develop from that?

 

[Lawnchair Bes]

++ [ originally posted by Nicole ] ++


Dont act as if it is the end of the world.

Tell me, if you really like this girl, what would you perfer?

1. She is your girlfriend, you have a great couple of weeks/months, but ultimately it doesnt work out?

or

2. A lifelong friendship that if one day the feeling is mutual then a relationship could develop from that?

considering that i am out of the city by september i would go for 1.

 

[Dan]

Maybe take her drinking, Bes style?